we have been best mates for about 10 years or so and about 4 years ago she started working at a pub that was fine till recently she has been all pally with this new girl and doesnt want to no me also when she moved away still spoke evryday then when she got home she became really good friends with this lad but i no nothing happend as he fancied me any way he got a gf and never heard from him for over a year till now he is back on the scene and she has just dumped me even though nothing is goin on between them i text her and instead of sayin she is busy or whateva she just blanks me and went over to her house the other day n she dint even wanna talk to me coz the lad was there and when i ask her out there is always an excuse, we have not long bin back of r hols so nothing has happend she has changed so much.... what could be up with her??
2006-06-10 08:48:04 · 12 answers · asked by grooveychick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Looks like you need to give her and you some space. Develope some new friends....associate with them....don't wait for her to maybe (or maybe not) change.
2006-06-10 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change..it hurts and it's not nice to be ousted by your friend, especially since you've been friends for so long but it isn't acceptable for her to treat you this way. It sounds like you've grown apart but it also seems like she may be a bit jealous of you because of this lad which is pathetic really because your friendship should be more valuable than attention from some guy who already has a girlfriend! Either she wants to be your friend or she doesn't, don't run around after her and waste your time! Spend time with other friends and get on with your own life..she may realise what she's doing to you then and what she could lose by behaving like this.
2006-06-10 09:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by xsammyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she refuses to talk this over with you, I think you really need to move on. I know this is hard. Try to be the bigger person about the whole thing and send her a text on her birthday and at Christmas or whatever. You dont need to hate each other just because you have grown apart. I do feel for you, but you really dont need a friend who hasnt got the time of day for you. I wish you good luck :o)
2006-06-11 03:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by whiskersmum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly sounds as if you've grown apart. If you want to stand any chance of remaining friends in the future, I'd give each other some serious space now and and suggest you focus your energy on others who appreciate your company.
2006-06-10 08:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by trebs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry chick sounds like your mate has found new friends so i suggest you should do the same,
you could go two ways,,, either completely ignore her and wait for her to call you or attempt to text her or whatever on teh odd occassion....
at the end of the day its up to you, but i wouldnt hold out for her get out there and find somebody thats wants to hang aorund with you....
2006-06-10 11:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her,u obviously don't mean as much to her as she does to u. she will come to u when she needs something, then u can her straight to piss off cause she didn't want to know u when she was busy doing whateva! u don't need people like that in your life. trust me!
2006-06-11 00:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes the lad and the two of them are avoiding u, well leave them alone cos if they were ur friends, they wont do that, they are not worth it. avoid them.
2006-06-13 01:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being a real ***** to u, so I would blank her for a bit and get new friends.
2006-06-10 21:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought me and my friends would always be together, but it doesnt always work that way. people drift apart, find other interest. im sorry, find new friends.
2006-06-10 08:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by _123456_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she's over you.
2006-06-10 08:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋