i live in a hostel.my problem is that i dont gel wid my roommate much.she is good &helpful basically &a nice supportive person as a whole but is also rather vain and self centered,wat i mean is that she likes to talk about herself a lot.and tho' we publicaly support each other,there is always a kind of cold war between us.like wen i score over her in anything like a better dress or more no.of phone calls,she is openly jealous and tries to get back at me in same way,tho' wen she get better over me i too feel envious but avoid open show of emotions.lately,i have also stopped listening her self centrd talk,so our relations are getting edgy.i also hv another frnd who though is not vain & wid whom i spend a lot of time but not feel much comfy wid her,she likes to talk bad about others many times &it irks me,tho' she is v.nice wid me.this is the end of our college 2nd yr.&next yr i have to choose a new roommate, which 1 shud i choose?
P.S.the 1st one has been my roommate for 2yrs
2006-06-10 08:45:51 · 5 answers · asked by infinity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well it is at schools and colleges where u can make friends other wise wat u get in life are just competitors or collegues..
so if u feel one of them can be good friend of urs in future chose that person
looking by what i read from ur question.. i suggest u to just havea new roomamte.. make new freinds
2006-06-10 09:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by narender k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u really want to choose from one of them?why dont you just choose someone else????
in my view,being vain and selfcentered not to mention jealous at times is a sign of todays women.....it isnt exactly a fault. as for bad mouthing others.....that certainly is a fault....y dont u tell ur roomie that you like her a lot but dont like this contant on upmanship ....you urself said she basically good...besides....havent u heard?...old is gold
2006-06-10 15:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by drrr07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. you are not comfortable with either of them completely now. why book one of them to make you uncomfortable for the next year too? surely they are not the only two girls going to your college with you. think big
2006-06-10 15:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by happy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to settle this the way they settle things in all those videos... put her over you knee and paddle her good.
2006-06-10 15:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Old Fat Bald Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why -are we psychic now?
2006-06-10 15:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋