She kept giving me shot after shot after shot. When we got all comfortable and laughing all night together, i slipped and told her that my husband (her son) was great in bed! She laughed it off & quickly dropped it, but now im embarassed to see her! Do i bring it up & say sorry?
2006-06-10 08:21:30 · 40 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh, this is just altogether trashy.
2006-06-10 10:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Oghma Gem 6 · 1⤊ 7⤋
I recommend you ask your husband for his take on this.
He knows his mother better than you do, and can recommend a course of action. He can even step in and do the talking for you. That way you could be relieved of your concerns without your having to say anything.
I don't think it's anything to worry about though. Personally, I'd be more concerned about why your mother-in-law seemed to be so interested in getting you drunk. You wrote that she kept giving you shot after shot after shot. What's with that? I'd ask your husband for his take on that too. If your mother-in-law is a boozer, then I guess it's natural for her to have repeatedly fed you shots, but if she wasn't drinking equal amounts or more, I would be curious to know her motives.
In the end, if nothing your husband says eases your concerns, you could send your mother-in-law one of those little blank cards and write in it that you hope you didn't do or say anything unacceptable while under the influence of alcohol the other night. And if so, you hope she'll accept your apology. The end. Don't go into details.
In closing, let me add that however this turns out, you need to be very careful in the future about how much booze you consume when in the company of your mother-in-law or anyone else other than your husband. It can come back to bite you. My advice: save the boozing for when you and your husband are together alone, and tell him how great you think he is in bed. He'll appreciate hearing it more than anyone else could.
2006-06-10 09:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she was probably a little on the drunk side hwerself, but you could tell her that you are concerned about whatever may have slipped out of your mouth during the night, but more importantly, you should let her know that you really enjoyed yourself. It's ok to tell her that for a moment, you forgot about her "mom" status, and were thinking of her more like a friend, so you will do your best to balance it all out in the future. Then let it go. I am sure that she already knew that you were happy with your man in bed!!!!!!!!!! Moms knw everything. :)
2006-06-10 08:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married, I'm sure she knows you guys have sex. Don't bring it up again, it'll just be even more embarrassing. It isn't a big deal, so don't overreact, if you say something, it will end up seeming like a bigger deal than it is. Just pretend you were so drunk you don't remember. Plus, if she's cool enough to go drinking with she's probably not outraged by it. It's fine.
2006-06-10 08:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In casual situatuions like that, especially when drinking is involved, things slip out. You're both adults and if she was drinking aswell she might not even remember. Don't be embarassed about natural things like sex.
2006-06-10 08:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by shaun1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't need to worry about it. If your mother in law is cool enough to go drinking with you then she's proabably cool with what you said. Any reasonably enlightened mother would be happy to hear that her son is a good lover.
2006-06-10 08:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by swordbuddha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it for right now but if she brings it up say the shots got to your head.
2006-06-10 08:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw this ain't no big deal. If, on the other hand, you said, "Your son ONLY gets off with Golden Showers or my Vibrator in his rear end," or other stuff like that it would be cause to be embarassed. You complimented her baby boy I don't see anything wrong there...
2006-06-10 08:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be. If she's such a person that you can drink with and all you said is that and it's nothing more serious I understand it's unpleasent to remind yourself but just relax and say "who cares" beacuse - who knows:
a) she was maybe expecting a bigger confession
b) maybe she doesn't remember it either
2006-06-10 08:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is polite and has class, she won't bring it up again. If she isn't and DOES bring it up, say you didn't mean to say that, and it was a slip of the tongue, and that you hope it doesn't hurt you're relationship with her.
2006-06-10 08:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by eplaty_flura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let it go.
We all do and say things that we may not usually when our guard is down.
Now lol that's a pretty cool mom in law you have though.
2006-06-10 08:27:43 · answer #11 · answered by Ragdollfloozie is Pensive! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋