2006-06-10 07:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by amulz1234 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No i just had the same problem too! I finally just stopped talking to a "friend" of mine because no matter what I talked to her about she would be negative. She would say negative things about what i think, or what I plan to do about some issue. She would also yell at me for no reason and cram her opinions down my throat! So just stop talking to negative people, it isnt worth the hassle.
2006-06-10 08:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm...well my sister use to be one of those people, I think she's bi-polar or something. Anyways, the only way to deal with people like that is to have a LOT of patience. You have to really care about the person in order to be able to stick around. Whenever she would get depressed or be negative I would do the usual "don't worry, things will get better speech." After that, she'd be ok for a day or two, then it'd start again. That's about all you can do...sometimes you have to be stern and be like, "what makes your life so much harder than anyone else's? Think about it." You can also try to cheer them up, by doing things they enjoy, like a movie or something. If all else fails, get them some counseling.
2006-06-10 15:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being negative at times is annoying and assuming someone who is negative all the time is I guess unbearable!!!...all u require is patience & understanding...if u know someone who is negative and u want to be friends with the person...then, u may possibly change that person n how he or she thinks...I am saying this because I ve changed my boyfriend who used to have plenty of negative thoughts...so, I advise u to talk to that person, see how he or she can be changed...u gotto show him or her the positive side of everything...keep them away from thinking negative...it works I guess...u gotto make a difference in their life...so if u think u r capable of doing all this or even changing ur friend's frame of mind slightly...u could be friends with him or her!...All the Best in whatever u do! :)
2006-06-10 15:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by lil angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, if their a true friend. You make up for what they lack and you continue to rely on on another.
2006-06-10 15:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think so. They would always bring you down.
2006-06-10 17:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lady D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in a way no cuz like even if u do hang around with that kinda person u might start feeling down cuz of wat he/she will say.
2006-06-10 17:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I couldn't. That would be so not fun.
2006-06-10 15:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it brings you down yourself
2006-06-10 15:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that not something i would say but no
2006-06-10 15:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by benkano g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so,i dont like bein' around ppl like this ..thanks for da points
2006-06-10 15:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋