me and my girl have been fighting and i have not done any thing but work all the time she is pregnt and im trying to get as much time at work be for see has the kid she does not belive me she thinks i am cheathing on her became im at work all the time. What should i do
2006-06-10 07:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by schmitty21629 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not much of a cuddly, emotional woman, but while pregnant (and even now), I felt especially needing of comfort from my mate. I didn't need much emotional support from other people, but the more contact I had with my mate, the better I felt. She probably just needs constant reminding that you're there and do love here. Just try being as romantic as you can and keep it up even after the baby is born. She either will see that you're really intent on doing right, or she'll just continue believing what she thinks, but at least you'll have tried and done your child right.
2006-06-10 08:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by erythisis 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Spend more time with her. She needs you very much right now. I know you are probably thinking about financial security right now, but you don't understand the feelings that a pregnant woman experiences. They feel very vulnerable. Very needy. Especially towards the end of the pregnancy, the absolutely NEED to know that their partner/significant other will be there for them. It is biological and emotional. She needs someone there for her right now. As she gets big (dont know how far along she is) she'll need people to help her get up, pick something up she's dropped, go somewhere uphill that she can't get to. It's emotionally joyful and scary being pregnant. Just try to support her more emotionally. Money comes and goes. This time is gold, and she will never again be pregnant with this baby, so enjoy her beauty!
2006-06-10 15:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant and let me tell you the things that go through pregnant girls heads. We feel huge and weird. We are not used to these new bodies or hormones. So it feels like the world is against you especially the ones that love you the most. I know you want to work more forr the baby but make sure oyua lso take time for her cuz what u do for them when they are pregant will live with you FOREVER...lol. good luck with the baby...and tell the girl you love her all the time and rub her back and feet and give her bathes,,,etc...good luck
2006-06-10 15:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there any way you can take a quik break a couple of times a day just to call her and say hi i love you pregnant woman have raging hormones and they can get really mean especially if she is showing alot. What would you think if you looked in the mirror and all of a sudden you looked like that bowling ball you throw on thursday nite you had swallowed show a little more love and compassion she did not get pregnant on her own
2006-06-10 15:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her take a day off to take her to the spa to get pregnancy massage then take her out to a nice little restraunt make sure there is good food.k? trust me most of it is hormones talking. Show her how much you love her and how much appreciate her write her a poem or even better, write the baby on how much u love it and her trust me u'll get some tears.
2006-06-10 15:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us girls are a pain in the a$$ when we are pregnant. Our homones are flying and were either happy, sad or very angry for no apparant reason and then in a couple of hrs. expressing how you are the best hubby in the world! Im 10 weeks pregnant and my poor husband just tries his best to shake it off and basically "tune" me out when I fly off the edge like this. Hang in there!
2006-06-10 15:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She on a hormone roller coaster, she needs to be with u so take a lil time off if you can and bee with her, she'll probably be sick of ya in a few days..lol. Just bear with her.
2006-06-10 15:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by JoKeR_GiRl☻ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant ladies turn very sensitive and feel they r not being taken care of...spend time with her go outing and make her happy dnt be harsh.coz she is caring for u.
2006-06-10 15:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Battery Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be going through some intence hormonal changes. just relax and suck it up.
2006-06-10 15:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant ladies turn very sensitive and feel they r not being taken care of...
2006-06-10 16:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋