What does this dream mean? And plz dont tell me im too young or concentrate on school or anything like that...

Question

I'm 13 and I don't know if that matters. Anyways I live in a small town so it was weird that this dream took place in a huge city, but there were no cars or ppl out on the streets or sidewalks. I walk into this building w/ 2 open sides and it's like a cafe/restaurant and its huge and grey/silvery...everything is except the ppl. I see the guy I like talking to his friend and he's all nervous cuz he's gonna ask me out. I walk over to a table where my friend (who looks different, but I sense that its her...at the time she was gonna hook the 2 of us up but liked him too) and she had a cake/cupcake type thing w/ pink frosting and sprinkles that mesmorized me somehow. She led me outside and I felt bad for leaving the guy i like inside, but because I was like hypnotised I followed her across the empty street a bit doubtfully and turned and saw the guy i like standing watching me walk away and almost attempting to follow me and she has this almost cruel look on her face. What does it mean?

Answer 1

Wow, I'm just impressed that you can remember so many details about your dream...I hardly ever remember mine. Anyway, I'm thinking this dream has something to do with fear that your friend doesn't want you to get any closer to this guy you like. If the cupcake she was holding was mesmerizing your attention away from him and then she's leading you away and seeming pleased with that, it just seems like that might have something to do with it. Maybe this isn't something you really need to worry about, but do you think that even subconsciously you might be afraid your friend is out to sabotage any relationship with the guy you like? The big city might just represent another fear -- you're away from the familiar confines of your small town and are instead in the big city where bad things can happen and there are lots of strangers...everything is so impersonal and sterile, so it's silvery and grey. Interesting dream, but I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe you just need to give some more thought about where these insecurities about your friend are coming from.

Answer 2

It could mean a few things. I don't know how long you've lived in your small town, but maybe things in your life are starting to change pretty rapidly. You have an idea of how you want things to be in your life..the huge city full of opportunity, but no movement or people, that might mean you just don't know what to expect, so you didn't know how the people in the big city (the changes in your life) woulud act or look like.....(things yet to come).

You like this guy, and you are hesitant to approach him. That could mean new developments in your life that you are cautiously approaching. Your friend represents the things in your past, what makes you comfortable. You know that you are growing as a person and that things will be new and a little scary, so you follow your friend and the pretty cake away from something that is new because you are more comfortable with what you know than you are with change.

You must understand that as things grow and change in your life it's not necessarily going to be comfortable for you. Change is always uncomfortable because it's the unknown. Don't be afraid to (with caution and good judgement) reach for the things you want, even if it means trying something new.

I hope this helped some what....You are never to young to figure out what your dreams mean. The thing to remember too is that the only person who can really interpret your dreams is yourself. Start making a dream diary, write down your dreams as soon as you wake up and start looking for patterns in the symbols that you see and the feelings you get in the dreams....it will help you make sense of them.

Answer 3

your friend may be using something that has some power over your emotions to mislead or distract you from achieving your goals. the pink frosting and sprinkles probably means that you find whatever it is she's got hanging over you emotionally very pleasant. maybe she's saying she's going to hook you guys up, but since she likes him too, she's just using that as an excuse to get closer to him. the fact that you are in a big city with no people in it until you see him might symbolize how when you see him, nobody else exists, just the two of you matter. He's following you in the dream, meaning her plan will probably backfire.

Answer 4

The huge empty city means that you aren't confined or restricted, you aren't pressured or stressed. The size of the cafe/resturant mean that it's important. The grey/silver of the cafe mean that it's not something to pay attention to - the grey/silver color means it's something in the background, so anything else stands out(the more important matter). When you see your friend and are mesmerized by her cupcake, that means the cupcake(represents either childhood or fun/freedom) is more important than being in a relationship. The grin on your friends face is either jealousy, or salvation.

Answer 5

The big city represents your future, success, education, glamor.
The cupcake represents you now, pink frosting - girl, sprinkles - young. It's what you already know about you in the present.
The friend, who leads you away is another form of you, an extension of yourself. The part where you are led away from the coffee shop, the cupcake, the boy, is your subconscious leading you into what you already know is the right path for you. Away from current distractions and to focus on the big city that represents your own thoughts for your future.

Answer 6

I think it's your subconscious trying to tell you that you don't completely trust your friend. First, she doesn't look like she normally does in real life, kind of like a wolf in sheeps clothing. In your dream it may be a symbol of her revealing her true self to you. It may mean that she also likes this guy and really doesn't want to see the two of you hook up. Either that or she's worried that it will interfere with your friendship with her. In the dream it seems like she is trying to lure you away or distract you with the cupcake (or what could be other issues, in real life).

My advice would be to watch your girl friend carefully, don't take everything she says at face value and follow your gut. If you like the guy, go for it. But you may need to decide if it is worth sacrificing the friendship you have with this girl. Go with your heart and with what your feelings tell you.

Love, light and blessings.

P.S. You're not too young, but please do concentrate in school! :)

Answer 7

Dreams are mostly a conglomeration of situations and ideas that come together in your mind randomly while you sleep. Meaning is ascribed (generally speaking) in how you feel in the dream.

It sounds like there is an underlying insecurity about the opposite sex and who your friends are that is perfectly natural for someone your age. I think it speaks to the fact that you're trying to understand who you are and what you want to do in terms of boys.

Just work it through as time goes by and realize you have plenty of time to work into a relationship a few years down the line and enjoy the friendships you have now.

Answer 8

dreams can mean a lot of things. it sounds like theres some unresolved conflict between u an ur friend or maybe sub conciously u have a problem with her about the guy u like.as far as being in a deserted city that could just mean u feel overwhelmed or new changes are coming

Answer 9

the person in the dream leading you away doesn't necessarily have to stand for a person, the figure could stand for anything the may lead you away from him. if you are being led through a big city, maybe your subconsciousness is dreaming about the idea of getting out of your small town and moving to the city. you could be dreaming about what it would feel like to leave your loved ones behind. what gave me this idea, is i also live in a small town, and the idea of leaving crosses my mind often.

Answer 10

Wow, you remembered very vivid details about the dream, something most people can't do.
I think the dream means that in the future you'll have to make a pretty big decision. And you'll want to do both, but you can't. Your friend could be one choice and the boy another. You followed your friend because you're loyal to her, yet you want to have the boy. You don't want to hurt the friend either.
That's my guess. Having a big decision coming up and you'll be torn on which to pick.
The grin--that might mean that you'll be second guessing yourself when you make the decision--if it comes up.

I hope that helped!