2006-06-10 07:43:22 · 24 answers · asked by amrita basu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FEELINGS!
when i have sex is pure lust and desire to have my man and you know blah blah blah
but when I want to make love is because something made me think about the nice things he does for me and i feel lucky to be with him and i just feel these butterflies in my tummy and oh god, i cant wait to get home to see him and share a special moment. making love is looking him in the eyes and tell him how much I love him.
2006-06-10 08:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by chikis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is self gratifying and for the moment and is used as a release and i usually mechanical with no feeling to it other then lust! Making love is selfless and wanting to please the other person and not just yourself. It is gentle and loving and includes lots of romance and foreplay! It is joining of to hearts and minds and unites to people together in love and commitment and has feelings involved and you actually care about the person you are with and speak words of love and kindess to them while doing so and spending time together afterwards just holding each other and talking. Making love is fullfilling and satisfying and having just sex is unsatisfying and makes you feel empty afterwards and frustrated!
2006-06-10 21:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex doesn't really include any feelings of the heart. Love making, is looking your partner in the eye and kissing them and being passionate while have sex. That is love making.
2006-06-10 14:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol me and my friends always had a def for this
*******- is like hard core, freaky kinky, maybe with someone u dont even know or care about, can be anything raunchy
sex- what two people have who probably know each other and atleast like each other....can be either freaky or normal....pretty much just sex
making love- tender, affectionate, with the love of your life, gonna put on some love music and have candles and slowly peel off your clothes and kiss instead of just pouncing on each other....
u'll notice how when ppl describe it what iot means like a college guy "yeah im ******* that girl"...and engaged couple "oh we made love the other night"......married people "we had sex'..lol
2006-06-10 14:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is just physical, no emotions involved. Love making is emotional, having a emotional connection to the other person.
2006-06-10 14:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Johnna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The acts are the same but the emothional attachment in the two are much dfferent... Making love invlves a great deal of emothional attachment... Having sex is just that... The motion that you are preforming.
2006-06-10 14:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Big John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically? Nothing.
The difference is between your ears. Making love is giving and sharing pleasures with the one person on the face of this earth you care for more than anyone else - and it's mutual.
If it's not that, you're just screwing.
2006-06-11 13:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic difference is emotions. Love making is something very gentle and sweet, leaving nice memories. While sex is just satisfying your lust
2006-06-10 16:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just having 'sex' is pure physical....'love making' is having an emotional bond with your partner during the act of sex.
2006-06-10 15:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by tim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is when you are just doing it with someone you don't care about (one night stand), but making love with someone you are totally committed to, feels completely different. The love that you feel between you....ahhh....priceless!!!
2006-06-10 14:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋