I've got a degree, a job, and a home. Why is finding a wife so hard?

Answer 1

Here are some tips, since I don't know you personally...

First, a degree and job and home don't make the person. Personality, character, value and morals do. So, based on this, let's look at those four things.

Personality-what kind do you have? Are you engaging, do you interact well with others? Are you humorous, express your intelligence well? Do you believe in equality between the genders, or are you belittling women?

Character-Are you someone with integrety? Kind or cruel? Selfish or generous?

Values and Morals-Honest, both at work and in your personal life? Monogomous or a sleep around? People over money or money over people?

Just be honest with yourself when answering these questions and that says a great deal about what people see in you. Also, speaking of seeing, have you taken an honest look at yourself in the mirror lately? Are you out of shape? Are you not well groomed? Could your wardrobe use a spruce up? Get an honest opinion from yourself and some friends you trust (mainly female).

Be the best you and that will attract someone. Look for people in good places, not bars. Be active in things where you meet others.

Answer 2

I've never been a wife. I tried once, but it never worked out...the guy couldn't commit after 13 years and a daughter. He was more into his "mommy", who lived right next door. I have no degree, but I have worked. Unfortunately I can't work right now due to medical issues that don't allow me to stand for long periods of time. I used to have a home, now I stay with my brother. It's getting real old, real fast. I live in San Diego, and hate it here. Wish I could move some where with a slower pace. Life doesn't seem fair sometimes, does it?

Answer 3

I have a degree, a job, a home, why can't I find a husband. Maybe you don't give yourself enough time to socialize. Try getting out and meeting people. I just don't have the time and when I do I met guys who don't want a commitment or even a relationship. If you get a good answer let me know.

Answer 4

Sorry dude you're missing the point. I've been broke all my life and I'm just about sick of women- and long term relationships -and girls wanting to get married -and other girls getting in the way. ISure, if you want to find a girl, things like assets can aid the process. However if you use these tools to find love, you're going to find that love found your assets and not you (then love is going to take half ). If I were you I would find someone who has no interest in that part of you and THEN you've got yourself a real partner. Go to the gym- grow some scruff-be yourself (but always a confident version of you)- hang out in places that interest you- and most importantly TALK TO A BUNCH OF THEM. I work in sales and finding chicks is exactly the same. Just talk to them like you would anyone not like your looking to put a ring on their finger. Make it your goal to talk to three new girls everyday just in casual convo (especially if you think you might see them again). Before you know it you'll be asking Yahoo!Answers "Which of these girls should I marry?"

Answer 5

Because people self seggregate themselves based on value. The fact that you have a degree, a job and a home means you are of higher value than most people. It will take you longer to find a woman who is a match for you. If you were a welfare slob, any woman would do.

Answer 6

I guess it depends on what you're looking for in a wife. Are you searching for a loving partnership with someone who is thoughtful and intelligent or are you, like many men, searching for your perfect Barbie Doll to hang off your arm and make all your friends jealous. Give some thought to your true intentions. Try searching for a real woman and not some Hollywood bimbo version. You will see that many real women exist. And sorry, most of us weigh more than 100 lbs.

Answer 7

maybe you need to look for a friend first. What are your interests? Are there clubs to join? Organizations with like-minded women? You have to take a little initiative.Maybe a female friend, neighbor or relative will fix you up. If you have a degree, you're reasonably intelligent and able to resolve this I think. If all else fails, try Asia. There are many available women dying to meet a westerner.

Answer 8

Because a Wife is a real living breathing thing, harder to take care of than a home, degree, and job.

Answer 9

Degree Job Home is what you choose for your future right?
But it's hard to find a wife cuz you gotta choose who will share you those.

Answer 10

Maybe, you are just looking in the wrong places!

A good wife would want you, not a piece of paper, or what job you hold, or what kind of home you have. Look for the one that wants you. Money comes and goes, and when you find your true one, she would want you not what you have.

Good Luck, I hope you find your other half, we all have one.