i just figured out 3-5 days ago while i was on a choir tour that 2 of my bffs like the same guy i do&they said they would leave him to me unless he asked one of us out so basically we r all kinda fightin for him.but 1 problem is he obviously likes this girl who none of us like(obvious reasons&she is snobby)&another problem is one of my friends is always like oh he held my hand or oh this and no offense to my other friend(not the one saying oh he did this he did that)idt he will like her so really my only competition is my other friend &they liked each other 4th grade but never went out&its kinda annoying cuz she always saying stuff he did to her like wen he held her hand(cuz we were praying!) she was all flippin out not wantin ne1 to touch that hand so to shut her up i told her that the day b4 i culdve been happy but she ruined it that shut her up&then he huged her fully side huged me ya so im kinda jealous but im tryin not to be!ik it wont ruin my friendship but did it ruin urs????
2006-06-10 07:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by --Just like That-- 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ya sry this mite be like really hard to understand!!! plz do ur best to understand wat i wrote! haha
2006-06-10 07:16:52 · update #1
more details. ok so im gonna sum it up. me and 2 of my bffs like the same guy and we r all kinda fightin for him but my 1 of my friends basically has no chance so i only have my other friend as comepetition but he obviously likes this other girl and we r all good friends w/ him. has this happened to u if so did it ruin ur friendship? ps-im havin a party on wednesday and another one of m bffs(who doesnt like him) is gonna be there(she thinks i should have him) he's gonna be there, his sister is gonna be there, and so r my 2 bffs that like him. im gonna try to get some alone time w/ him so i can talk to him and flirt w/ him a lil and MAYBE tell him that i like him =D
2006-06-11 16:05:39 · update #2
that is why those under 18 years of age need their own site....
2006-06-10 07:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky I'm in a patient mood today and felt like reading all that. Yes, many friendships have broken up over some guy. This is not the end of the world, it's teenaged drama, and you'll completely forget the incident shortly unless someone commits a homicide. Keep the friends and dump the guy - he's probably enjoying this scene WAY too much.
2006-06-24 04:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that situation b4 but because i got my best friend whom i love so much and we promise to stay together until the end, and we decided not to fight about. we both like him but it's time for the guy to choose between us... but as time goes by, we chose our relationship as best friends and left the guy alone and start to be friends again and until now, we're best of friends and no one succeeded to ruin our love for each other as sisters til the end
2006-06-23 19:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by babymine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends and i made a deal that we can like the same guy u just cant hit on him when hes goen out with one of us and then when we split u have to waight a mounth to ask him out or go out with him to give time for the oouther persion to get over him.
2006-06-10 07:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much BS drama for me to even deal with. Too many people involved. Too much childish crap. Two points for me telling this kid to grow up and it is not the end of the world.
2006-06-23 04:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by ^v^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, in 4 or 5 years, all of you girls will forget about him.
2006-06-10 07:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a life!! You sound so desperate!!No boy is worth all this!!You guys are making yourselves look really bad, seriously!
2006-06-23 05:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Godisaboveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, are you kidding me, thats something straight from middle school. Come on find someone else, dont bother with that guy at all, and don't post that on here again
2006-06-24 03:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep it simple. Why don't you all sleep with him at the same time have sum fun
2006-06-22 22:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus - he likes another girl. so he's off limits. Let it go and learn to breathe and take a breath between sentences. Jeez.
2006-06-22 18:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋