I'm stuck living at my dads for almost half the summer, and a lot during the school year. I hate being here because I hate my dad and his new "wife". last night, we attended my half sisters high school graduation. she is my half on my dads side. when it was over, my dad tried to give my half brother a card, which i dont know what it was about. then god bless his soul, he didnt even look at him he simply walked away to talk to one of his friends. then my dad walks over to mom and says, "thanks for that you fat piece if s**t" I was mad and havent talked to him since. unfortunanlty im stuck here because of a supid court order. I'm 13, helpless, and I dont know what do do anymore. I have 2 weeks here and then i get to see my mom and my girlfirend. i just cant wait i love them both so much god i feel like crying right now. please if anyone has any experiance with this give me some advice@
2006-06-10 06:54:24 · 4 answers · asked by Alex D 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Don't sound like too much of a problem to me, I thought you had a REAL problem. Two weeks is nothing.
2006-06-10 08:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! Here's something to think about though....
your dad is hurt by your brothers refusal of his card, he took it out on your mom. I assume your dad loves you (which is why he has a court order to have you stay with him) I would confront him on this issue, tell him how much it hurts you to see him treat your mom this way! Tell him your angry with him and expect him to treat your mom better-more maturely. And that if he can't, then you expect him to let you stay with your mom until he can! You can also tell him that if he can't respect your wishes, then the next time you get a chance, you'll go to court wit your mom and request that you no longer be forced to spend time with him, at your age, I think you have the ability to choose who you stay with and see! hope this helps...the harderst thing you have to do is look at this from all perspectives! Even if your dad seems like a total idiot right now, there might be some good qualities in him....he is your dad, you don't get another one. Good luck, be smart!
2006-06-10 14:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i have had felt heopless before. i tried to vent our my fruastration by screaming and drawing.
2006-06-10 14:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by yofatcat1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,i sure do. Once I broke my leg and that's exactly how i felt!!!
2006-06-10 14:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by kadesha Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋