men do you respect a woman who works full time at a 9-5 job or a woman who stays at home and takes care of 3 kids all day?
2006-06-10 06:23:54 · 24 answers · asked by toni h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The woman that stays home and takes care of 3 kids definitely works harder. "The hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world", and so therefore deserves the most respect. If she drew a paycheck for what she does, only a few banks would have the money to cash it!
2006-06-10 06:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 16⤊ 5⤋
respect is due to all who deserve respect. A woman who works a full time job, then comes home and takes care of a house has her hands full. I don't see how she does it! And I would go crazy if I were to stay home all day doing the same thing every day. Whoa, not a life that I would want in either case. Women have the sh*t end of the stick, if you ask me.
2006-06-10 13:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is not in the 9-5 job or the staying at home rearing kids. Respect is earned in every aspect of life.
2006-06-10 13:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect the woman who raises her kids more than the woman that sends her kids to daycare and works 9 to 5. Kids need a mother not a babysitter. This is the ideal scenario for a family. If there is no option for a mother for raising her kids, then i will respect her when she works and raise her kids.
2006-06-10 13:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by baadshah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect the woman who raises her kids more than the woman that sends her kids to daycare and works 9 to 5. Kids need a mother not a babysitter.
2006-06-10 13:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect either of them. If she prefers to work, I'll respect her and thank her for helping me out shoulder the burden financially. If she wants to be a plain housewife, just the same, I'll respect her and thank her for it. Except for the pay, working 9-5 is no different from being a housewife. Sometimes, its even more difficult to be the latter. :-D
2006-06-10 13:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought it wouldn't make a difference but here is my experience. my wife was a DJ and shortly after our marriage she lost her job. then she became pregnant and did not want to go back to work. i felt she was wasting her talent but she wanted to devote herself to the kids. i don't know if there is a right answer but it really frustrated me.
i think she is wasting her talent. But it's hard to do both so i don't know what to tell you. You will have to be willing to accept a lower standard of living for a while but it's probvably best to stay at home maybe until they get in school.
2006-06-10 14:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by get_unlost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a stay-at-home mom of 2 kids. I love my life, and I really prefer to stay home with my kids. I think if you're able to, you should stay home with them. But if you're not financially able to, then by all means, work. Just find a capable babysitter or daycare for them, and make sure you always spend time with them when you get home.
2006-06-10 13:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by dshapiro1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men would have a hard time doing what us women do. Whats the saying,We can bring home the bacon,fry it up in a pan,& never let them forget there a man. even though they may want to forget when we hit them up for money so the kids can go out & do something.
2006-06-10 13:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by tiltintam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both.it depends.a woman who opts to stay at home to take care of the kids definitely has her priorities in order.if a woman has no kids,then working can be a good option,although being a housewife can be a full time job.....
2006-06-10 13:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by backlashwarrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would respect a woman who does what she loves. if she wants to stay home, then that would be fine, but if she wanted a job that took a lot of hours, that would also be fine. it would depend on the guy though
2006-06-10 13:26:50 · answer #11 · answered by socomstud88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋