AS I said I can't stop looking at any beautiful girl and this makes my wife so angry . She becomes very jelous . What shall I do to solve this problem ? I love my wife very much and she does the same but I look at beautiful girls or women I don't know why may be because they have beautiful bodies or something els but i can't help it .That's every thing . thankyou .
2006-06-10 06:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by abu.feras67 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not the one with a problem. It's perfectly normal to look at beautiful women and I really would not try to stop it, I don't even know if that's possible for a guy. Just reassure your wife that you love her and you think she's much more beautiful than all other women.
2006-06-10 06:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by ryan f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once read a solution to this that went something like this: when you see that pretty girl, you see her, then you put your arm around your wife and give her a kiss. This is also a good course of action when there aren't any other women around :>
But that having been said, actually the preparation has to start in advance, when there are no pretty girls around. You have to decide what you are going to do next time. What you are going to do with your eyes, what you are going to do with your body (I'm talking about the invisible things we do with our bodies that only we know about).
2006-06-10 13:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is normal. looking at other beautiful girls is what guys are born to be. there's nothing wrong in it, no matter you are single or attached. probably the difference is the former you can do it anytime anywhere, the latter, you have to be more tactical and find the correct time to do so.
probably, there's really nothing much you can do, except to convince your wife that looking at other girls doesn't subtract any love you have for her. she can't monopolise your eyes, for that jealousy factor! so, perhaps, make her understand that you look but you won't ever touch.
anyway, don't tell me she doesn't stop looking when a hunk of her dreams walk past her?
2006-06-10 13:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by showstopper1313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently your wife is insecure in the relationship or with her own looks. I personally have no issues with my husband looking, nor he when I look. It's perfectly natural for someone to admire the human form. My husband and I even make a joke out of pointing people out to one another. We both know who we're going home with at night. Granted, you don't want to be stepping on your tongue when you're looking or in need of a bib. Try talking to your wife and find out why it bothers her. Reassure her that she's the one you married and she's the one you want to be with but that you do admire the "art". Good luck!
2006-06-10 13:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats normal for a guy. Aren't your wife happy that she married a real straight guy not a homo? Definitely she'll reacts worse if you look at guys not gilrs! Theres no wrong in looking (thats appreciating beauty) so long as there's no touching! lol :-D
2006-06-10 13:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cgspitfire has really good observations. I was raised with four brothers and umpteen uncles. They are (and were for the deceased ones) very loyal to their wives. One of them made the comment to me that he loved his wife dearly. But as he said, it's good to look. It's pretty much how you phrased it. Appreciation of the Female form. It's seen a lot in sculpture. It's natural. He told me too, it gave him more appreciation of his wife. Her softness, her gentleness, her womanliness. She made him feel more like a man. "Honey, I look, but it's you I take home."
2006-06-10 13:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual creatures, and when we see a beautiful woman, our intital instinct is to look. When you're married, and you see a beautiful woman, it's like seeing a new car. You can look - just don't schedule a test drive.
2006-06-10 13:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by casaudiotc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r looking @ other females because your wife is not doing what she should be doing, take her shopping and buy her things that you would want her to wear so that she can live up to your needs. Once she dresses up like others, you won't have to look at other women. bring some passion, treat her like she is your MISTRESS and not as your WIFE
2006-06-10 13:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by J B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Friend if your wife looks someone like this how do u feel. Think that and stop such activities. Be a gud husband.
2006-06-10 13:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my husband always says look, but don't touch.... as a married women I'll tell you.... the woman's biggest fear in a relationship is that..... "that girl is prettier than me and you'll leave me for someone better".... I am learning it, and I think that its okay for you to look, just don't let your "head" at the bottom do the thinking for you....
2006-06-10 13:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Desy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋