Have you ever been accussed or people assume you are doing something your not?

Question

Has anyone ever been accussed of doing something by a person people and then decided stuff it if I am going to cop the **** for something I havn't done then I might as well do it. If you did how did things turn out. Did things become worse or was it worth it because of all the **** you had been putting up with anyway.

Answer 1

ya, people can be so damn annoying!

Answer 2

I was accused of sleeping with my best friend in high school just because the two of us were always hanging out, and hugging and just were uber affectionate! People assumed we were dating each other, even if we each had another partner!

One of my boyfriends even got on the bandwagon and punched K. in the face after hugging me at a football game!

It got to the point, after a year we finally just did it! It was great! We had already loved each other as friends, and then dated. He still remains one of my closest friends though we decided to break off the romantic relationship after about 6 months- we are just better as friends!

So if you are being accused and people are treating you different because of it- AND~ you won't be hurting anyone(*yourself or someone else*) than do it! It might just change your life!

Answer 3

I have lost good friends because they jumped to conclusions about what they thought I was going to say before I could finish saying it. My analogies had no direct bearing on the topic of our discussion, and they assumed that since I used a violent analogy, I must have intended actual violence.

Nobody would let me finish talking. Nobody would listen to me. If I tried to assert my right to speak, it was assumed that I was about to erupt in violence. It was very frustrating, since any expression of anger on my part at the injustice of it would only tend to confirm their mistaken impression.

Even if you are about to be shot as a wolf, I would advise not to turn wolf. Don't give your enemies the gratification of seeing you lose your temper and become the thing they accused you of being. You will have your integrity, even if they don't believe it.

I have learned a lesson, to speak more plainly, and I have new friends now. I will be able to keep these, I think.

Answer 4

Just break it off it gets that bad! Don't cheat that just makes you a worse person. Just break up or tell him how you feel and if doesn't feel the need to change for you than he is not worth it and move on

Answer 5

people are always going to make assumptions and pass judgment and they are human for doing so but for someone to sink to the level of being or doing what people are saying it because they are saying it makes yo the fool. If people called you a murder but you weren't would you then go and kill.??????????

Answer 6

kids....