i have four children but i work hard to make sure that it doesnt look like it! i am in quite good shape, and i never want to let myself go. Should i keep this up or should i relax? i have better figure than before children now, and i feel it is important that my husband finds me attractive still after 10 years together. Do you think people should not care about their appearance so much? Its just that i want him to find me attractive, but sometimes i just feel like giving up and eating pies all day! am i too vain?
2006-06-10 05:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by BRICK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know people who are the same as you. For example, me, I dont have a child yet, but he is on the way, will be here in october. Since I stay home all the time, I dont feel like I should get dressed or put makeup on when I am not even going to go out. But then I think, ok when I first met my fiance, I was always trying to make sure I at least looked decent around him. I feel its something I can do for him, is try to keep up with myself. After the baby is born, I plan on going to the gym more often and try to lose some weight so I can try to look better for him, because sometimes I feel like I dont look good to him anymore, and I want him to always think I am attractive. I think maybe you should give yourself at least ONE day a week or every 2 weeks to just "Relax" and not worry about how you look if you dont plan on doing anything. I may have not been much of any help, but I know how you feel in a way!
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2016-09-08 23:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by scharff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only look good but stay looking sexy. Remember your a 'Good Thing' and need to keep it that way.
He who finds a wife finds a good thing,
And obtains favor from the Lord.
Read the story of Esther, she spent time making her self beauty and the king loved Esther more than all the other women, and she obtained grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins; so he set the royal crown upon her head and made her queen instead of Vashti.
You may not accept his answer but do me a favor and remember this:
You are already a queen and things don't change
People charges things. Please let it not be you to make make the change for worse but more beautiful,attractive, and sexy
2006-06-10 05:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Agree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with it...
Looking good and feeling good can help you, not only in the home, but in general life...
And if you husband finds you attractive, that has to be good for the sex side of things... If you went to fat, he'd look at other women (possibly)...
And if you have more energy, you have a much better time of it... And all your kids friends (once they are old enough) will look up on you as the local MILF!!! ;)
2006-06-10 05:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 3 kids girl and do the same thing ( same situation ) coming from someone who does the same thing, i dont think there is anything wrong with trying to look good and be healthy only if it takes away from the kids. but keep it up hot mama. glad to know there's another out there like me!!!! our husbands should be the lucky ones huh??
2006-06-10 05:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say stick with it i hope i look half as good when i'm done having kids. it is more of a changle for a female to keep her guy attract to her the it is a guy that is just the way the world is today
2006-06-10 05:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just keep on doing what you've been doing! He appreciates it , whether he says it or not. Besides , I like to look good for me, if for nobody else. No pies, lol! Stay looking beautiful!!
2006-06-10 05:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can eat whatever you want, but keep your good shape.
2006-06-10 05:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋