i want a family now,so wanna know how can i get guys to marry me??
2006-06-10 05:28:31 · 14 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well if you are coming off that strong with them that can explain allot. Look at it like that remote you can't find when you are looking for it you will never find it but you will find everything else, but once you stopped looking for it and when you least expect it you find the remote right at your feet. Marriage is a very serious things so is starting a family forcing it can leave your in a unhappy marriage with a family that will sufferer from it and most likely not be the best functioning marriage. It Will come when it is time. I am pretty sure that you are picturing having this great husband and family, wouldn't it be better to wait and have that rather then just getting married and making due. And if you find yourself with someone that isn't interested i getting married you need to examine weather or not its worth stying around. (i don't mean it after three months or maybe even a year he isn't ready). trust when I guys put some thought in who he marries that is usually a sign that he takes it very seriously and wants it to be done right with the right person.
2006-06-10 05:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starting a family is something that takes time. With a family, comes a home, later, children, etc...It's not going to happen overnight. My theory is not to look for love, let it come to you. You can date several different "candidates," before you decide to "settle." So many marriages these days only end up in divorce within the first couple years. A rash decision can result in disaster. So weigh out all your options, figure out exactly what it is you want out of life, then find a mate who has the same ideas so your future with whomever can be a win win situation - instead of something you think you're ready for happens and ends at the same time. Good luck in love and life!
2006-06-10 05:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong to go from one guy or girl to another it is sin because it test's your faith in God Spiritually.Before a guy goes out with Girl or a Girl Goes out with a guy they have to be ()FRIENDS FIRST!!!!) Yes Friends First That applies for both males and females because then the guy or girl thinks that God Always sends them bad stuff and that nothing ever works out for them and they stop going to church and they start blaming God that the relationship went wrong when really its the persons own fault the most reason why people leave church and become unchristians is because of relationships between the guy and the Girl . Christians date nonchristians well it never work out like that because you have to be equally yoked if not in nationality then at least in religion.Girl's it is also sin to test guys faith in God by wearing see through thongs and all that see through stuff that distracts their faith in God and For Guys it is Wrong to Go From One Girl to The Next because then the Girls Can't Trust Guys and the Guy who really likes her will have no chance with her because of the last guy who dated her and broke up with her Christians aren't supposed to do that kind of Stuff.In America Every Year there are 1,200,000 divorces and 1,600,000 abortions a year and 23,000 sucicdes a year.Not Good Statistics
2006-06-10 05:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa slow down there...first you have to actually go through the steps of dating a guy. you just don't jump up and get married. In due time the right one will come to you
2006-06-10 05:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can not get a guy to just marry you, at least not for the right reasons, plus it just wouldn't last
2006-06-10 05:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all turn off your computer. Then go out into the real world and look around. Maybe, if you are lucky, you will find a really nice guy (but they are really rare)
2006-06-10 05:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sperm bank.. That kind of attitude will only drive men away.. Besides it sounds like you are about 16 years old!! Most mature adults don't go around calling men "guys" anymore
2006-06-10 05:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa u dont jus "get" guys to wanna marry u! u hav to hav had a preivious relationship, and u work up to it...hav a good realationship with a man and if u luv him and he luvs u thn there ya go
2006-06-10 05:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by ~luvable~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know you only want a serious relationship that might lead to marriage
2006-06-10 05:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy u want it that bad head to las vegas lol good luck.just take ur time
2006-06-10 13:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by kalamorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋