When u tell someone that u like them and they say that the 2 of u should just b friends, do u not give up or do u just keep ur friendship and leave it at that?
2006-06-10 05:25:59 · 32 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some of my best women friends were ones that I wanted to date at one point. I even wound up with one girl as my roommate, though her boyfriend wasn't too cool about that. Also, sometimes things change. My fiance now was my friend for a long time before we became a couple. Of course, we met online and were just trading emails. I'm in the US and she's in Japan, so it's hard to date that way. Anyway, being friends with members of the gender you are attracted to isn't a bad thing. Also, they can give you dating tips if you become close friends.
2006-06-10 05:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by spudric13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship. I had that happen. This guy really liked me but I thought of him only as a friend. After about 9 months of hanging out things changed. I told him that I've started having feeling for him. He was shocked. Then he shocked me and told me he started seeing someone the night before. LOL!!! We did end up dating but didn't last. We don't even speak now because my husband wouldn't like it. I wish now we never dated at all and maybe I'd still have my friend. Hope I didn't bore u too much.
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-10 05:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important to know that people who dont want to fall for you would directly deny you to be with or ask for a friendship. Basic difference in the two is they dont consider you up to it. You can stay a friend as you had been. But dont break relation just because you were not accepted as a lover. Friendship has its own meaning too. And when a girl says she just wants to be friend she likes you - but may mean that she needs time to love or trust you in general. It varies from situation to situation and person to person. Think yourself carefully ! Have the best !
2006-06-10 05:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Aratj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep the friendship and work on making it more. Good luck.
2006-06-10 05:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have the upper hand now that they knows how you feel towards them. Stay friends and do not bring up those feelings again, let them make the next move on if they want to modify the relationship and then you decide on if you want to or not.
2006-06-10 05:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship, maybe it could lead into something better
2006-06-10 05:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship then he might see what a mistake he made.
2006-06-10 05:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say in between keep the friendship but also say stuff suggesting u go out together
2006-06-10 05:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by texashotshot_56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship and see if it develops later...
2006-06-10 05:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship, maybe later it will be more.
2006-06-10 05:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by eminemgs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋