ive been going out with my bf 4 3yrs and now im moving i dont want to lose him. im sad help me give advice plz
2006-06-10 05:03:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im only 14 and i very worried that hes gonna break up because i moved
2006-06-10 05:09:34 · update #1
oh! darling dont get upset...i am sure you are leaving for good, i mean for studies or career or something i hope or even if its just that you are shifting your residence...then dont worry just believe in your love...if you guys really love each other then there should be anythinbg to be scared of...just trust each other & dont let the romance fade, i mean you'll have to work upon it...you have to keep that spark alive even if you dont stay close now...you can obviously keep connected through internet or telephone or even more romantic through letters...but you'll obviously need to take out sometime for all this...just dont worry, dont get insecure...hope for the best & keep the communication flowing...if he really loves you then he wont go anywhere but if he does breakup cuz of this reason then its bitter but the truth is that he is not even worth it...i mean distance hardly matters if you are true to love...obviously the initial days are gonna be hell without him but slowly you'll cope up...take care...
2006-06-10 05:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ru moving? Are you leaving with your parents or is it your job? Give us more clues so as to help you!
But keep this in mind: it's really hard to have a relation from distance, without seeing each other at all. Try at least to see each other once a week. The other days, talk to phone, chat on internet or send tender letters to each other!
The last thing you should do is to be sad! DON'T BE PATHETIC, JUST TRY TO FIND SOLUTIONS!
2006-06-10 12:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you leaving him???
Obviously there must be an overpowering reason...
Move on... Find a new life...
2006-06-10 12:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good time to bring up marriage.
2006-06-10 12:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's old enough ask him to move w/ you. and if he cant if its in driving distence see each other on weekends and vks
i hope it works out for you two
2006-06-10 12:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by yooooo:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his # and call every nite and tell him that u love him and u never wanna break up wit him
2006-06-10 12:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first person, I know how you feel.
2006-06-10 12:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sophia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come i will give you advise. I first want to play with you!!!
2006-06-10 12:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by radiospy2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i don't have an answer for you....just wanted to say that i love your screen name....
2006-06-10 12:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep in contact!
2006-06-10 12:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋