2006-06-10 05:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... TICK... Time... it's a simple as that over time... you'll get over someone and be able to move on. You'll know when its right. Believe it or not it doesn't take as long as you may think. Good luck.
2006-06-10 05:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, realize that the reasons you split up have nothing to do with you as a person. The relationship simply failed. No biggie. It hurts now, but that hurt WILL go away over time.
You can make it hurt less by focusing on yourself. Go shopping and buy yourself a new outfit. Go to the gym, work out, make yourself as beautiful as you know you can be. Start a new hobby! Go take dance lessons! Meet some new guys...you'll be amazed at how good you'll feel when new people pay attention to you. Go out on a minimum of three dates over the next month. Dating new people and getting attention from the opposite sex will keep you from wallowing in your sorrow, and will show you that you're a hell of a catch. You know how great you are, don't let a silly guy bring you down!
2006-06-10 05:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sweet heart this is a tough one.. It is a little different for women than it is for men. In the movie "Harley Davidson and the Malboro man" Stay with me now I'm brilliant.. The way a man gets over a woman is with a bottle of Jack Daniels and another good woman. In this society it isn't politically correct for a woman to do the same. So you should buy a very good vibrator might I suggest the one with rabbit ears made famous on "Sex in the City" it will get you over the penis envy thing very quickly cause now you have your own. I don't think it is very lady like to drink whiskey. So might I suggest a dessert wine something late harvest very sweet maybe from the North Fork of Long Island. Last but not least a very good porno DVD something new and European. Might I suggest one of Vivids many talented ladies. So now you have the booze, the magic stick, and the media. MMM sounds like a night full of orgasms to me. The Duracel batteries guarantee it will keep going and going!! lol!!
2006-06-10 05:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gr8tFuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over a guy, i've found, is to find another one!! and "go at it like rabbits" haha.
after i broke up with my ex i felt awful for a while, but i got over it. i went out a lot with my friends, met new people, just tried to have fun. go find someone better than him and hook up. you'll feel much better...even if it is just for fun and not a serious thing. getting attention from a man is what you need, so find one who will give it to you!
oh and you absolutely HAVE TO stop talking to him. cutting off all contact helps a lot!!!! it is very important*********
2006-06-10 05:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by musikalgrl20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The steps to get over an ended relationship are the same as grieving.
The "relationship" died, and you will go through denial, false hope, anger, depression, and then finally acceptance.
It helps a lot to get OUT among others, who can help to make you less depressed, and make you laugh. You'll be fine.
I wish you love
stw
2006-06-10 05:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dumped him that's a good thing and if you want him back make him jealous go out with one of his friends and make his friend tell him .but the best way to get over him is find a real man !!!.trust me i been through this.
2006-06-10 05:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jeffina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to admit to urself that it sux and you miss them, because denial will just make it harder. Then the best thing to get over someone is time. Give it a while and eventually uall realize that person wasn't as important as you though they were.. . also surround yourself with friends and people you love to get your mind off of it.
2006-06-10 05:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to them telling them how much they've hurt you, how you feel about them, etc. Just pour it all out. Don't show them, of course; this is private. Rip it up if you want; burn it. You'll probably feel worse after you get it all down, but at least you will have tried to make lucid of your feelings. It will pass.
Then, call your friends. Do something; get them to take your mind off it. I know sometimes we want to feel miserable - it's natural - but don't wallow.
2006-06-10 05:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is nothing but concelling the time you stay with him/her. if you respect your self people will do the ssame to you, caring is the bed rock overcoming of other affair, always think of him first, give him/her advice that determine the levelhis/her life. take as your best friend and give more time than anybody, whether or not you are enjoyin him dont show. and always be there for him
2006-06-10 05:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by adamu_isah78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time!!! That's all i can say.
I learned the hard way too. Try to get on with life and enjoy it before you get hooked up again.
All the best for the future!!!
2006-06-10 05:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by cailin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋