I have been with this guy for three years, he is perfect for me as I am him. we have been seperated for a little over a year, now that we are back in contact i am not sure if I still love him the way I did before. He is still talking marrage and kids and stuff like that and when I told him I wasn't ready for marraige he freaked out because we was engaged.(yes He got his ring back) But while we have been apart I know he was seeing another woman as I have begun to see another guy. I only recently started seeing this other guy whereas he immediatly started dating this other woman. Now i am developing some pretty strong feelings for this other guy but when I am with the man of my dreams, my heart still flutters and my knees get weak. Where do I turn. I have this very strong feelingt hat guy #1 will never really grow up or do anything with his life. guy #2 has a really good job, supports his family and has his priorties in order. What is a girl to do?
2006-06-10 03:53:28 · 9 answers · asked by showgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Turn the other way.
2006-06-10 03:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫i luv♥♫juicy fruit♥♫gum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy #2 is the one for you, no question. You will regret guy #1 later in life. As you get older you will come to greatly appreciate the things that you like about guy #2 because these things are what hold a marriage and a family together. In the long run this will be more important than any other personality trait the other guy may have
2006-06-10 10:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by mmf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever one makes your heart skip a beat is the one to go with. My heart has only fluttered for one man lately and now he is gone and I am so scared of how to feel towards my other. Best wishes
2006-06-10 10:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have weigh the pros and cons of what you really want. You have to have a heart to heart with each guy ...separately.. Then go somewhere by yourself to be alone where there will be no distractions and think of what you really want. In my opinion I would go with guy #2 but thats only my opinion. Only you can decide what you will do follow your heart. no one else can help you decide what you need to do.
2006-06-10 11:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Do you feel like he cheated on you with this other girl? I mean does it bother you that he has had another woman? If it does you might want to rethink it .. it may come back and haunt you and you wont be able to get it out of your mind. I say don't do it! Run hard .. run fast!
2006-06-10 10:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by jenny2tone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...we have a similar situation going on....from MY experience, I have to say go with guy #2...you will be happier in the end, I promise you!!! Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder (referring to your feelings for guy #1) and in time your feelings for guy #2 will continue to grow!!! Good luck!!!
2006-06-10 10:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number two sounds like a winner!
2006-06-10 10:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should pick the one who get ur attention the most. ones that u comfortable with. just think it all over and over again. when times come, everything will be alright
2006-06-10 10:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will probably find that neither of them is 'mr right' as when you DO find him,you will have no doubts
2006-06-10 10:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋