I got my boyfriend but it doesn't seem like he into me?

Question

I mean after we started he just acted more touchy just like leaning on me and stuff but its all play full like and I'm not sure of it.everytime I ask him something he says another time but that's only when it's about gf and bf question I'm really unsure some one please help?????

now that you mention it ur makin me feel bad don't do that please

how can we slow down if we r already bf and gf? and he's moving over the summer I might never see him again.

see types of answers that michael gives r the ones I'm lookin for

Like today was this luau thing and someone asked him if he wanted to go
with me. but got there hi and pretty much it some ppl were like go go
talk to ur girlfriend but the only stuff he said was hi or just a plain
greeting Then when I decided to leave. the principal was like if cody
stays will u? then I just stood there and said sure I'll stay. but then
when I went to talk to him I said Why did u say yes to being my
boyfriend? Then he's just "Why do u ask that now?" Then I just left since he
said that. I have feelings for him but I mean like he doesn't show that
he has any at all. He always avoids that question. I just wish that he
knew how much I really like him to him it's a game from my point of
view. That's all.I think.

Answer 1

The reason he is acting like he is just playing is to avoid sharing his real feelings. he is worried about what you and other people will think. you should take him to a quiet place and call him out on it. Talk to him about your feelings and get him to do the same, don't let him just sit there and say "OK". After you have a long talk about the way you both feel, go do something together, such as get something to eat, play a video game. i guess at your age you cant just drive around, i`ll do stuff like drive backward down the street, etc...
I hope this helps, and i know how you feel.


- I know how you feal there, megan is the same with avoiding that question, just keep trying, but just be carefull he may try to back away and not tell you how he feals, this is because he is scared of shareing his fealings so he hides them, take it slow and dont pressure him into talking.

- You have to explain that you left because he insulated you, he dosent know that, he just knows you left, after you wxplain that would be the perfict time to talk to him about your relationship.

-since you wish he knew how you feal, you shuld probibaly tell him how you feal, but thats hard to do isnt it.

Let me know how it turns out for you, i think it will be great, but it may take a lot of time to get through.

- If you need any advice and dont want to post it on the web email me at "[e-mail]".

Answer 2

The reason he is acting like he is just playing is to avoid sharing his real feelings. he is worried about what you and other people will think. you should take him to a quiet place and call him out on it. Talk to him about your feelings and get him to do the same, don't let him just sit there and say "OK". After you have a long talk about the way you both feel, go do something together, such as get something to eat, play a video game. i guess at your age you cant just drive around, i`ll do stuff like drive backward down the street, etc...
I hope this helps, and i know how you feel.

Answer 3

Maybe you need to give your relationship some more time to grow. Don't you think you might be going too fast? Just continue being friends for now, allow the flow you are seeking start on its own.

Answer 4

He is not commited to YOUR relationship. Ask him how he truely feels about you...KEEP EYE CONTACT WHEN YOU ASK HIM. If he looks away while answering...he's not telling the truth.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Sounds like he likes you as a friend and not as a gf... OUCH that hurts!

Answer 6

talk to him, tell him how you feel.