Is there any chance in saving a realtionship where i broke the trust my man had in me, i didnt cheat or anything like that, i just went behind his back and did what i thought was right but now he says he doesnt know if he can trust me anymore and i feel really bad, i just dont want to lose him, he means the world to me, is there anything i can do to fix things, i just need some advice
2006-06-10 03:39:55 · 17 answers · asked by melykiskv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make him realize that you're really sorry for what you have done. If not in words then in actions. Make amends. Show him how you really love him, this time three times or much more. When you're able to win his trust again then be careful to keep it. Learn from your mistakes.
But, if you think that what you did it was the right thing. Then justify it to him and point out the advantages. He should also respect your decision, no matter how difficult it may be. Im sure you did it thinking something positive will come out of it. Or it was done in good faith, and aiming for the best.
This is not a perfect world, we make mistakes and he must accept you and forgive you if he thought what you did was a mistake. I just hope that it's not because of his pride or ego that he became mad at you. He should be thankful that you have shown that you are trully concerned about him.
Good luck! :-D
2006-06-10 03:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by cernad06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship, you should always be honest with each other.. Always tell the truth even though at times it is extremely difficult.
I don't know what you did so I really can't comment too much. However, talk to you boyfriend and try to explain why you did it. He should be able to forgive you if he loves you especially if it ain't no big thing. If he can't get over it, go on with your life. Take Care
2006-06-10 10:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its hard to say! Trust is very important in a relation... basically its everything how about talk to him one more time calmly and if not give it some time let things cool down a bit in that time phrase he may realize the he loves you more to stay mad with you and may give you another chance!!
Good luck!
2006-06-10 10:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider it the other way around. Would you have a relationship with a man who you could not trust?
2006-06-10 10:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost the most important part of a relationship..trust..will never be the same even if he takes you back
2006-06-10 10:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is saying he cant trust you ,is it a way to get out of the relationship--if he really loves you,he would try to work through this
2006-06-10 10:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are so----sorry for hurting him and ask him if there is a chance for the two of you to have a relationship. If he says NO then walk away and learn from your experience
2006-06-10 10:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all you can do is say your sorry and really mean it. Give him some time and allow to deal with it If he loves you and wants to work it out he'll come around.
2006-06-10 10:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to regain trust once it is lost. If HE wants it to work also, try counseling.
2006-06-10 10:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, tell him how you feel. it might take a while to get his trust back, but if you work on it you will get it back.
2006-06-10 10:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋