2006-06-10 03:29:20 · 14 answers · asked by Habour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce.
2006-06-10 03:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have to think about what you two really want from eachother and want from your friendship and where its gonna go from there. You have to weigh the pros and cons with this woman that you met. Then if you decide that you want to spend the rest of your life with her then both of you get divorced. If there are young children involved its a little more difficult . Cheating on spouses is never a good thing. No one can decide for you its your decision and it has to come from your heart. You also need to talk to your wife about it so it will only be fair. Have a heart to heart with your spouse and go from there... and your new lady friend should do the same. Good luck
2006-06-10 10:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You truely need to examine you relationship with your wife.The goods and the bad's.Are there children to think about?Is she unhappy as well?Is this women worth losing your wife, kids, possibly friends and family members that disapprove?How far have you taken this relationship?If you are truely unhappy the you should consider the fact that you want to be in a miserable unhappy relationship for the rest of your life?Or is this just sexual?If you can work this out and repair things with your wife(especially if you have kids) You may want to pursue that route first before you do something drastic.I just went through this myself.I am divorced now with my 4 kids and I am happy with my new love.It has ben very difficult!But he is worth it.Good luck.
2006-06-10 10:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by heather c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is .... married. Nothing good can happen until you are either not married or have worked out why you are unhappy. Don't fool yourself into thinking another will cure all the ailments... won't happen, and will lead to a bigger mess. You and I both know it. Good luck
2006-06-10 10:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out the legalities first, that is, you both need to get divorced. If you have affairs, your current spouses can screw you over on the divorce settlement.
Make sure your wonderful lady is on the same page, otherwise you'll go from two women to zero women.
2006-06-10 10:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on getting a Divorce then find out what you really want. Maybe she is just better then what you have?!
2006-06-10 10:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by jenny2tone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get marital counseling for your marriage your currently in. She should do the same. If the mariages can't be saved. you both should get divorce. Or if you don't want to get divorce then have an affair. its your choice.
2006-06-10 10:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both unhappy maybe you should get divorced and see what happens from there
2006-06-10 12:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by arizonabrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being unhappily married. Begin again with this new woman in your life and see if you can become happily married to each other.
2006-06-10 12:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if ur unhappy get out of the marriage. she should do like wise. then if after time you are both still smitten with each other
go for it
2006-06-10 10:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋