We've been going out for 4yrs, now i'm in UK.He's so simple, he can't afford to call me on the phone or write a letter. I always call him every time.He does not have any thing ,his parents support him.Madly deeply in love with him.
2006-06-10 03:20:15 · 22 answers · asked by tonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are that in love with him, wait for him or try to help him to come over to you.
2006-06-10 03:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going out for four years now, like how can you do that. Just by a phone call? Have you actually ever met him in person?
IF not, just let him go. You will find someone else that you can actually date, get to know a guy and see how he will treat you in person.
If you actually do get to see each other once in awhile, then thats a little different.
If the family is that poor that they cant even afford stamps for a letter, is not a good relationship to start with. You will struggle hard, and you will be the one paying for everything.
Id say move on. Too much distance between you and too poor to even talk with each other.
2006-06-10 10:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of love is so deep, but how long are you going to do this?.Don't invest so much in this love because at the end you are left there with piling bills. Sometimes they demand so much that you cannot afford and one is not also sure if all what they tell is always the truth or not.
2006-06-10 11:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even write a letter for you? not by internet?
what are you looking for?
Is he "the man of your dreams?"
LOVE MORE YOURSELF , and go on with your life, maybe this was wonderful in the past, always remember that, but live realities, soon you´ll find another person, and this time, try to find someone better
Best luck
2006-06-10 10:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to deal with this carefully if you break up with him you have to tell him the real reason why, which is gonna make you sound really vain! But on the other hand i have visited Ghana myself and constantly got marriage proposals, it seemed that they saw a white women and though money! You do need to get out of this relationship but be careful how you do it.
2006-06-10 11:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by helsbelsg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure that he is also deeply in love with you, u should confront him and give the relationship a chance. but if he's still acting the same way, then u should take some time off to fall out of love with hima and find a better guy.
2006-06-10 10:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, if u think he really cares and love u, he should have find a way to start communicating w/u, by the way u said it, looks like he doesnt care for u at all, move on girl. theres a lot of guys out there.
2006-06-10 10:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by fc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its a quality you have to love some one so much. i think you should carry on with him. but don't marry him as long as he is really ready to pay his phone bill and afford to buy his own letter to write to you. wait for that day to come.
2006-06-10 11:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, your interests, your goals. If he truly wanted to contact you, he would find a way to do so. Sounds as though he as become complacent towards you.............you deserve better than that. Get out there and live your life!
2006-06-10 10:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. He lives far from were you live besides there is a lot more fish in the sea!
2006-06-10 10:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sydney Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter if he is african!
either way you dont want to date or be madly deeply in love with a broke guy, its not going to get you any where!
2006-06-10 10:24:04 · answer #11 · answered by Interested Fish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋