Even though you have a good job yourself and feel it might be hard to get back on the right track of security?
2006-06-10 02:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by madsally42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll answer you with this questions: Do you really love your spouse? Because if you do, then you'll give the confidence and trust your partner need. Sometimes, we have to make sacrifices no matter how difficult it may be to ensure the relationship to last and be stonger. If you have an open communication, then talk to your spouse and open up. If you think that staying would be better for the both of you, not just you, then convince your partner. there may be a lot of opportunities available in your area. But if moving out is more advantageous, then give in. The decision you make should be mutually agreed to avoid any untoward incidents. :-D
2006-06-10 03:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would support him if it were my husband and follow and be a wife for him even though he has to move. Find a job in the new area or place. Your security should be more in your marriage and in your spouse . Money comes and goes and you can find work most any place. He is to be the provider for the home and i feel you should let him do that they way that he feels is best to do!
2006-06-10 15:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your security from your spouse. know that they would never intentionally lead you astray... It will be hard to start again, but think about all of the adventures that you will experience together..
and yes i would move if my husband had to change jobs. I have grown up in the same area and i know no different, but I have faith in our marriage and in his decisions..
Maybe you should check in to your relationship, see if you don't want to move because of feelings in your relationship..
2006-06-10 10:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by queen_poisonivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would after a lot of talking. If my spouse would be happy with the move, I would find a way to make myself happy. You do not want your spouse to resent you for not letting them take the opportunity.
2006-06-10 09:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me. i lived in CA, then my husband hated it. i loved it and my job. he wanted to live in his hometown that i really despised. i ended up quitting my job. then he lost his job. i was very, very unhappy when we moved. since he lost his job, we had to move to a 3rd state. now things are better. i would try to get out of it if you can. but at the end of it all, fate will move you where you need to be. since i moved, i am having a baby and i do not have to work. this makes me much happier than staying in CA. things work out for the best.
i hope my experience in this helps you. i wish you luck. i know how you feel. it is SO hard.
2006-06-10 11:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. On one hand I believe you follow the biggest breadwinner, even if that is the wife, but having said that I'd never live north again. I will never see another winter as long as I live and if I have to live alone to accomplish that, so be it.
2006-06-10 13:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend on how strong your marriage/relationship is,,,do you care more about yourself,,,your relationship,,,are their children envoled,,,,and why did he change jobs,,,,I had a sister who went through the same thing,,several moves,,ended up in divorce,,,left a good job each time,,,now she has no benifits,,,no retirement,,,she lost!! but its your choice
2006-06-10 10:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to him about your fears and concerns with moving. Analyse the situation and make a judgement together.
2006-06-10 10:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you love them
2006-06-10 09:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then yes
2006-06-10 10:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Destined2beGreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋