I think it is males tendency to grab and keep it to himself. He got married with you and now he wants something in addition to you. The best solution to this problem is...tit for tat.... Just try this once. You ignore him and don't allow him to touch you ...and then see the difference....
2006-06-14 18:07:26
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answered by Night King 1
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Did you ask yourself if you have done something so bad that really upset him? If you had, then make amends and try to win him back. If you have been showing him all the love you can give, then try a bit harder. But, if you havent and he has been doing this for long, then why keep up with him if he's not worth your love. Perhaps he's afraid to tell you frankly that he want to quit the relationship with you but he cant thats why he does those things to make you upset and so that you will do the first step. Re-examine yourself, let go of him if you are no longer happy and if he also wants space and freedom. It may be difficult and hurting, but its for the better for both of you.In the end however, its only you who can decide on this matter. Ours are just words of concerns and advices. Its all up to you. Good luck. :-D
2006-06-10 09:56:29
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answered by cernad06 3
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Wow he is mean and why does he think you are a creep full of crap and sick. I know he must be being unfaithful and untrue to you and having lots of affairs . You are a wonderful person and should not ever be treated like this. Get out now and at least separate and find counseling and help. There is nothing wrong with you but there is alot wrong with him and the way he treats you!
2006-06-10 15:40:22
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answered by Lady Hewitt 6
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Poor darling, you should just pack your bags and leave. Your hubby is an egotistical pig. If he does not like you, why did he marry you? Only for dowry? Talk to your parents and his parents. Seek the advise of a marriage counsillor. The best thing at any case would be to go.
2006-06-10 09:57:18
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answered by hpadbanabhan 2
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I think you should really talk to him. try to get him to go with you to a marriage counsel. and come right out and ask him are you having an affair. see whats he says tell him to be honest. ask him does he like these women,he takes pictures of. things can always be mended if so. and if you really love each other. i would defiantly go to counseling. you should not have to put up with that. your friend Laurie c.
2006-06-10 10:43:01
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answered by BLONDIE 2
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It sounds like this is a situation you need to get out of. He's not appreciating what he has. Don't live your life feeling unloved. You deserve so much better.
2006-06-10 09:53:54
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answered by Boxkar Fan 2
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You need counseling. Try to get him to go with you to marriage counseling. If he won't go, go by yourself. A counselor will be able to help you a lot more than we will on the Internet!
2006-06-10 09:52:32
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answered by cucumberlarry1 6
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Then get a seperation, for about a year and if he comes back to ya, then girl... he was jus buggin, besides dont you want to be happy?
2006-06-10 09:53:05
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answered by jennifer w 1
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No I do not feel that it is right. Now it time for you to pull yourself together and show him how it is to feel that why. I know your in pain and I am sorry. But now its time to be strong
2006-06-10 09:53:18
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answered by Anonymous
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like so many other girls you chose the wrong guy. Too bad live with it.
2006-06-10 09:50:20
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answered by Anonymous
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