Why am I gay? Please, Let me know!!?

Answer 1

b/coz u were initiated into sex by a gay
u love to be treated as girl
u like prostate rubbing.

Answer 2

One doesn't start out thinking: I think I'll have a crush on the same sex. You can't control who you are attracted to, it just happens, there is a reason for this but I don't know the reason! I am beginning to think gay people are just (born) that way, the same as being born with blond hair, or dark skin, or green eyes, etc. etc..We are all different! I am a strait woman, yet at times I find I am drawn to,(attracted to), older, strong woman and wouldn't mind at all being in the same bed with them, yet I don't know why that is? Is there something (wrong) with me??, Or was I just born that way?!

Answer 3

Surfgirl2go gave some good info.

Scientists are still trying to work out all the variables in sexual orientation. Just seek to understand and appreciate yourself, and read as many of the studies as you can get your hands on as this is an area that is finally making some progress.

Answer 4

Latest stats from research suggest that you may have been born that way.
This is an article I read just recently on MSN homepage:
Mystery Solved? Why Some Men Are Gay
Men may be homosexual because of their mother's genes. Scientists from the University of California at Los Angeles have found that the genetics of mothers who have multiple gay sons act differently than those of other women, reports HealthDay News.

WebMD: Sexual orientation is not debatable.

Basically, it works like this: Every woman carries two X chromosomes, even though they only require one of them. So the human body routinely inactivates one of those X chromosomes at random. Normally, what happens is half of the X chromosomes go one way, while the second half go the other way. "It's like flipping a coin," study co-author Sven Bocklandt told HealthDay News. "If you look at a woman in any given (bodily) tissue, you'd expect about half of the cells to inactivate one X, and half would inactivate the other."

What is it like to grow up gay?

In this study of 97 mothers of gay sons and 103 mothers who did not have gay sons, 25 percent of the 44 women who had more than one gay son also processed their X chromosomes differently than normal. "When we looked at women who have gay kids, in those with more than one gay son, we saw a quarter of them inactivate the same X in virtually every cell we checked," Bocklandt explained to HealthDay News. "That's extremely unusual." Only 4 percent of the moms whose sons were not gay inactivated the chromosome in this way, as did 13 percent of the mothers who had just one gay son. Bocklandt said this phenomenon is typically seen only in families with major genetic irregularities. He said the research "confirms that there is a strong genetic basis for sexual orientation, and that for some gay men, genes on the X chromosome are involved."

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Answer 5

A lot of times people have bad experiences in their childhood that cause them to seek love from a member of their same sex when they get older. Since you don't give any information it's impossible to give you a more specific answer other than to say that in many cases it has to do with being raised in a dysfunctional family or being the victim of abuse.

You don't have to continue as a victim of your past however. There is healing to be found in a relationship with God through Christ. This passage from the Bible was written by the Apostle Paul to members of the church in Corinth back in the first century. Corinth was a city that was known for sexual immorality even among the many other pagan nations where having temple prostitutes was considered the norm. Notice that Paul says that the believers he is writing to "were" all of the things on his list of behaviors that would keep a person from inheriting the kingdom of Heaven.

"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. "All things are lawful for me," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful for me," but I will not be enslaved by anything. "Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food"--and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 1 Corinthians 6:9-13

I was a drunkard for most all of my adult life but then I started to go to church and received new life in Christ by asking God to receive the Holy Spirit. I haven't had a drink in years, praise God!

Answer 6

You aren't gay.The media just really confuses a person.Don't go on confusing yourself like that,okay?.God mad everyone unique and in is image.Start telling yourself everyday that you are normal.If you are gay,it's like you don't want to marry with the opposite sex and that's a sin.you should ask God's forgiveness.

Answer 7

low self confidence?
because you keep telling yourself youre gay?
abused? confused?
cause you havent been in a heterosexual relationship... a good one anyway.

..i dont know. but i bet if you wanted to be heterosexual that you could defeat your gay feelings.


ADDITION: I agree with Wanter. the media is a humongous gay influence! the media can severely mess up your head. plus when youve got all of society telling you that homosexuality is okay.. that can mess a persons head up.

Answer 8

if ya think that ya are gay while ya aren't will that means ya wanna be gay
but if ya are a real gay than it's depends on your way for seein the life my be ya are not attracted 2 girls ya like boys more
it's no big deal dude chill just accept who ya are and deal wit it good luck :)

Answer 9

Why are you gay? Why don't you start by asking yourself that, before you ask any one of us to help answer that for you. You know yourself better than we know you.

Answer 10

It's like asking why u r a human being ? It's natural, accept this happily