MY Cosin is haveing a baby and she is like24 or 25 and she told me that if her and her husbent couldint get pregnint thay would adopt and i wanted her to adopt because I am the only one in the family adopted. wute can I do i am so mad because she is haveing one near thinksgiving time! I need help!!!!!!
2006-06-10 01:29:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are you being so selfish? This isn't about you, it's about your cousin. Try acting like an adult and suck it up.
2006-06-10 02:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you be mad because someone was blessed with having a baby...at Thanksgiving time...that's quite selfish don't you think? Is the real reason that you somehow don't feel like you really belong..because you said you are the only one adopted in your family? You need to understand and believe that you are loved very much...your family got to "choose you"..that is a very special kind of love. Maybe it's time to sit down with your family and let them know you are feeling a sad and depressed....I am sure that will help alot. You should be happy that your cousin is having a baby...and by her telling you that if she couldn't have a child of her own...she would be willing to share her love for another child..one that she didn't give birth to....it was her way of also saying...that it's okay to "love"...no matter..just like the reason that your family loves you....you are no less to them than a blood child.
2006-06-10 08:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATS THE PROBLEM WITH THAT? SHE IS HAVING A BABY AND THATS SUPPOSED TO BE A HAPPY TIME. JUST BE HAPPY FOR HER, SHES FAMILY.
2006-06-10 08:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋