2006-06-10 01:17:35 · 18 answers · asked by Destined2beGreat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I get the point. I will grow up and mature first then think marriage way down the line
2006-06-10 02:58:40 · update #1
You NEVER get married just for the sake of getting married... you get married because you have found the person whom you want to spend the rest of your life with and you wish to commit to that person.
2006-06-10 01:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Greywolf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to church or fellowship. There you will hopefully find some nice, good girls that like yourself are looking for their future partner. Let it be known that you are serious about wanting to settle down and start a family.
Don't pay too much attention to the people who tell you to wait for Miss Right to come along. There is no Miss Right. The office where I work is full of women who thought they were too good for the men that were interested in them when they were in their twenties and now that they are pushing forty - have never been married and have no children - they are desperate to get married and have kids.
Basically, to get married you only need a few things. You need to have someone who has a similar background to yours - so there are no surprises. You need to find someone honest that you can trust and admire. No liars or false flatterers. You need to have an attraction to the person physically and you need to have that attraction returned. The "being in love" thing doesn't last long in the face of reality. You need a stronger connection than that. I think it is better to walk into the commitment without being blinded by an infatuation.
2006-06-10 01:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get married just like that? Are you running from something. You want to get away from home or what? You should never get married because of that. That marriage will be an alternative only and will never be happy. If you want to get out of your home, start working and rent an apt. Don't force yourself or your partner to be into anything, especially marriage. That is not a game or something to fool around with. That is serious stuff.
2006-06-10 01:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and have no desire to get married. If you're only 19 and you want to get married, then you should consider the expenses involved. If you want to get married and live a comfortable life with your spouse (and the children that are sure to result within at least 3 years) then you should at least wait until you've been through college, and/or have a REALLY good job. You don't REALLY need to get married unless you're a Republican... in that case, just marry anything you come across just to make your president happy.... ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM WHILE YOU CAN.
2006-06-10 01:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by jpanek_2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i knew what i know now at age 19 i would say let it be a desire and wait 10 more years then think about getting married..
2006-06-10 01:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is for mature minds.Mature men and women, not for boys and girl. Before you think of marriage you must be mentally, physically and otherwise matured, in order to cope up with the institution of marriage, or else you end up a divorcee.Nevertheless having put all machinery's in place go to God for the right person, even though your name is deleted out of dating book God Himself will include you.
2006-06-10 01:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by golden G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to grow up! Then you need to sit down and think about what a marriage is supposed to be about. At this point you aren't mature enough to even consider marriage.
2006-06-10 02:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats ur hurry in getting married?
u get married soon,u will bcome a parent even sooner
then u will start grumbling about all the responsibilities that u have 2 shoulder when u have a family. use ur brains and not ur d***
now is the time for u 2 enjoy ur life.
njoy life.marry when the time is right.
2006-06-10 01:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by nishap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 19 you're to young to get married! Get your college education, seek out the career of your choice, get that JOB of your dreams, pack that bank account with $$$$, buy your 1st home, and have yourself financially and educationally set before you think of committing to marriage.
2006-06-10 01:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first.......you need to cool down and mix with more friends,marriage is a beautiful thing but you need to wait till the right person comes along.Good luck
2006-06-10 01:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋