I have only 4 friends and thay are kind of handde caped and I have one friend that is normal but I whant more friends wute should I do?? I have tryed talking with them but thay push me away~
2006-06-10 01:03:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah plenty of them but not satisfied... :(
2006-06-10 01:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by S2K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should worry about how many friends you have. Most people have lots of acquaintances, and just a few close friends. If you are always friendly and open & genuinely interested in others, then you'll connect with like-minded people. I know it's a corny saying but it's true "To make a friend, you first must be a friend". Just make sure you don't try too hard, because that just comes across as desperate.
2006-06-10 08:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have very few "friends" because for me to consider someone my friend they have to meet rather a lot of criteria, however I do have a lot of acquaintances who's company I enjoy.
In my humble opinion, when it comes to finding friends, it is best not to try too hard - you cannot make people like you, to try to do so will only serve to push people further away. You will make more friends as time goes by - just have a little patience.
2006-06-10 08:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Greywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your Friend.
You're handicapped, that's no excuse to be rude or a good reason for you not to have lots of friends.
If Folks cannot look past your handicap they ARE not good enough to be called your friend.
No one has the right to push you around either!
Join some clubs in your area ask at the Local Library or imformation Centre.
Cool?
Good luck everyone deserves to have friends.
2006-06-10 08:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its doent matter if they r handicaped the tht matters is tht they r ur true the 1s hu push u away can never be ur friends and if u want 2 make friends try 2 be frienly with people who stay near u in ur lane and u can also try 2 make friends not only in ur class if u r a student but also frm other classes
2006-06-10 08:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by cool gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have so many friends more than about 30 or 40 of them.
2006-06-10 08:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shyam Sundar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need only 2 or 3 real friends in life. You cannot treat all your intimates as friends. You select wisely. If the four have really affection for you, no more friends are needed.
2006-06-10 08:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 1 or 2. More than enough.
2006-06-10 08:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by Nacho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a lot and they're in different groups...
you don't necessarily have to push yourself so hard just to make friends. they come and sometimes they just wouldn't fit in or you wouldn't fit in.
choose friends base on your interest. not necessarily that they ALL have to fit in to your requirements or be in one group.
choose friends that you feel you can grow as a person.
people who pushes you are not friends, they're bullies...
and if i were you, i would stick with my handicapped friends. they may be incapable of doing some things but they can be a friend...
2006-06-10 08:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i have a ton of friends. to get more friends just act like ur self and if they dont like u 4 who u r thn its not worth being friends with them. someday some1 is goin 2 appreciate u 4 who u r.
2006-06-10 08:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by xXsweetXheartXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show kindness to everyone you meet everyday. Learn to listen and empathize. When people look for someone to turn to, be there when they need you. That way, you will gain more friends as much as you want to.
2006-06-10 08:14:46 · answer #11 · answered by Wala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋