2006-06-10 00:29:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kandela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was the one that filed for divorce.
He claims his heart will always belong to me, however, he is with the woman he cheated on me with - does that make sense?
2006-06-10 00:39:42 · update #1
This does kinda make sense but i am glad you have gotten away from him because he is still proving even though he says he loves you he cannot still stay true and commited to you!
2006-06-10 08:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are in love with him, but maybe you are. You could be anyone or more, of the following:
jealous
love
scared
in disbelief
nervous
sad
unwanted
mad
etc., etc.
You probably are still loving him, but you could most likely be dicouraged and angered that he has someone to go to at night. I would say that you need to find new people. There is a part of you that wants to hold on, but another that has let go. You need to find you inner strength (Hilary Duff song), and learn to find yourself again. Take your time though, it's all part of the healing process. You don't have to love the people you meet, but it will make you more comfortable to be out again.
2006-06-10 01:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by otter7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural for a part of you to still be in love with your ex, especailly if there are children involved. Sometimes when someone we cared a lot about moves on weather we wanted them to or not, we get those feelings of jealousy, or trying to hold on by thinking it's love. Beleive me once you move on with someone else, the feelings will deminish.
2006-06-10 00:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say in love, but definitely still have feelings. And as the years have gone by and the children have grown, those residual feelings left over from the marriage are now gone.
2006-06-10 00:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still care for my wife and I still have lover for her but it is hard for me to give or to allow all of my love mostly because she lied to me about a relationship she was having outside of the marriage and she has continued to lie to me throughout. Also she was disrespectful and inconsiderate during the split. Even though I have love for her, I logically can't see myself allowing those emotions because self preservation is high on my list of priorities!
2006-06-10 00:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to me but that is natural. Your partner might have wanted it but maybe not you so it's actually natural. That happens to alot of people. And don't listen to the guy with the first answer. He's just being mean. You should report abuse.
2006-06-10 00:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mercyfull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to love after divorce. That is the real love.
2006-06-10 00:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. When the love was gone, it was gone for good.
2006-06-10 00:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not still in love, but still in lust. She was one good piece of ***.
2006-06-10 00:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naa
2006-06-10 00:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by girly wirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋