What should i do? He is always with his friends playing or watching football?
2006-06-08 23:58:51 · 27 answers · asked by Sara 4 in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
tell him. communication is key. and if he can't take time for you then it's a decision you'll have to make...ask yourself can you live with it or not? it tough but remember that marriage is about both people's happiness and you deserve love and affection. 'kay? good luck!
2006-06-09 00:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately there's nothing you can do to redeem a football - addicted....If he spends most of his time watching football it doesn't means that he doesn't care about you, it's just an immoderate passion which leads men in such a fanaticism that they don't even notice how this could hurt people around them.
I suggest you not to complain about that...he should be the most sensitive person in the world, but when there's football at stake all men lose their "horse - sense"!
Woman complaining about football is a cliche into male universe...
So, you should just don't care about that...Take advantage of all chances you'll have to do something you like when he's sitting in front of the TV watching a bunch of troglodytes chasing a ball!
kisses
2006-06-09 07:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ananas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember reading this article about british men - that around 70 percent of them had admitted that they prefered football (soccer) to their wives. :) This is funny and not tragic I suppose, because that's just something that men are so keen on and it's not in the same cathegory as women. You are not competing football. It's actually good to know he is busy enough in his free time with something as healthy and entertaining as footie than other women, drugs, alcohol or gambling. Find something you like, something feminine so you won't be bored while he's kicking the goalie's a**:) p.s. I was myself a footie-maniac once in my teens and almost broke the garage's gate with all those scores :))
2006-06-09 07:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anya Vronsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read all you can about the Cup, the players etc. Follow the games. Listen to programmes and get all the low down. Tell your hubby how sexy so and so player is and get really happy about each game and tell your hubby you don't care about the off-side rule. Buy yourself a Shirt of your team and cut the sleeves and collar and chop it off at belly button height and wear it to bed. Buy your husband some beers and ask him to invite friends over to watch on the telly and tell him you love him and 'Beckham'
2006-06-09 07:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by majackalaas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My view is something different from others. What I think is maybe its his hobby to like football. Me too love football. But It doesnot mean that i love my wife little less. To this end look at yourself. Your look or sex appeal may not be enough to help him be happy with you. what you can do is try to be with his side and make him get attracted to you. Ask him about it when he is not watching a match.
when he is not at home call his friends and ask them about the problem. and tell them not to come up to your house so often to watch television matches.
2006-06-09 07:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by KD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy. It is just a feeling that u have, no husband/wife ever do that until both of u have already hit the road block.
So get that weird idea out of ur head and start seeing ur husband like before and you would see no change in him.
Grow up ppl!
2006-06-09 07:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by The Guru® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone says it is just for one month..... well so be it.
Explain to your husband that he can have his football for this month and that he can have you for one month out of the following year.. and let him choose the month..........or he can pay as much attention to you NOW as he does football. I think you will see a dramatic improvement in his attention span as far as you and you love life are concerned!
Have a great day!!
2006-06-09 08:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by terry35645 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either try learning more about football, just to see if you gain an interest in it...once you understand the game better...you'd be able to share ideas with him.
But, if it's a real turnoff to you...Tell him you feel neglected...seek counselling, if he's not willing to change...or begin making plans for a life without him.
2006-06-09 07:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by AlbertaGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get into watching football, then it would be something you both do as a couple. or find ways to or things that will take his attention away from football
the better way is just to talk to him and explain how you feel :-)
2006-06-09 07:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by ☆Princess NonO☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2006-06-09 07:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by ag_iitkgp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One: Learn as much as you can about football so you'll understand what he is talking about. Two: Remember: Football doesn't last all year. Three: Give him something else to get excited about !!!!!
2006-06-09 07:00:51 · answer #11 · answered by Sandy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋