2006-06-08 23:50:58 · 18 answers · asked by Misti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just had my birthday on Wednesday, and every year I get a little bit closer to being 50. I think there is a lot to be said for inner beauty.
I am a dwarf, now if we were sitting at the same dinner table, you may not easily notice my differences. I do not have the frontal bossing of my forehead like some dwarfs have. But I am indeed quite short in stature (4'-9") with a great deal of arthritis in my spine and other parts of my body. All of my life, I have been "different". I don't think I am ugly, but I am deformed. My arms and legs are dwarfed. I have gone around my whole life being different, but I have done my best, and you know what? I am happy! I do not look upon myself as one with "short comings" (please forgive that terrible pun!), but I see that I may have something good to offer someone. Although I am not an average person, I feel that in many ways I am above average! I have a lot of understanding and compassion that people find comforting.
I was fortunate enough to meet a wonderful (2nd husband) when I was 38 years old! Sometimes love comes to find you when you are not out there really looking for it! Both of my husbands have been over 6' tall!
Beauty isn't everything, and it fades as the years go by. I knew some beautiful shallow sexy girls in High School that look like Grandma's now! *(laughing) and most of them ARE Grandma's now! Because of my malady I could never allow myself to gain much weight, or change much. The Arthritic condition that I have keeps me from being a real party animal, but I take medication for it, and when I am able, I still use my time to try to help people.
I would say that if I can do as well as I have while walking past all of the "average" people who seemed to stand above me, then you may have a good chance too! You just have to believe in yourself, and be willing to try, and show the world the person that you really are. What about you makes you feel that you are not beautiful? Try to take your negatives and turn them into positives!
Your attitude can make 99.9% of the difference for you! Decide to be a winner! Be unsinkable! Use your beautiful mind, to show the world the beautiful person that you truly are!
Your question sounds so melancholy, good hearts can fetch a lot in this world, but they can also become sour, and spoil if you do not use that good heart!
2006-06-09 00:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good heart fetch everything in life. It can never be comparable to something that wears and tears away with time. The very basic quality of human natures makes everyone and anyone gets bored after a point of constant attention. Anything material would make someone get bored unless they are maniacally addicted to it. But a good heart is like a flow of animated life in to an inanimate body. Good thoughts good deeds good words generated from a good heart would result in smiles first and love later. Love generates respect and sense of belongingness. Then they get converted in to responsibility and accountability. It is only a good heart that could help out a person when every door is closed. And beauty may offer instant gratification and attention. It would definitely be so shiny that it would make very thing around obscure. what one must understand unequivocally is that... Its the beauty of heart that would remain a glow that would lost for ever. Like a thunder flash that would blind everyone but only for a few minutes is.... No where comparable to a tiny candle that gives light so little, so comfortable so guiding. Good heart.... is what everyone in the world needs and beauty too...some times. Its like you can not eat ice cream forever. But you can not stop eating bread just because its bland
2006-06-09 00:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by cheenuray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person with a good heart means more to me than a dozen
women who are attractive on the outside, but are empty on the inside.I am a guy, and there are lots of us who feel this way. So, all you gals who may not be well endowed by what is considered great outer beauty, take heart in what I have said. We love you for who you are.
2006-06-08 23:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty only means so much it is the heart and personality that truely matter. What you look like now is not what you are going to look like 20 years from now. Beauty fades but the heart goes on strong.
2006-06-08 23:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by meg7901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only a trigger. Its one of the ways for you to find somebody, but it is not what determines whether you are attractive or not. Good heart is what determines the important factor in life.
2006-06-09 00:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by lyfonej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monty Python "The meaning of existence". . ."each sperm is sacred, each sperm is excellent. . ." Why is basically human existence 'sacred?' We people are no longer something different than bare apes with a unusual means to think of abstractly and communicate symbolicly. There are over 7 billion human beings alive in the international in the present day, adversly affecting all different existence in the international. a deadly disease or conflict that decreased the inhabitants of people by ability of ninety% could be the main suitable concern that would desire to take place for the earth. How lots 'sacred' sperm lands up interior the sewage gadget? we could all cry?
2016-10-30 10:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only for shallow people maybe. In the long run good hearted people are what make the world go around.
2006-06-08 23:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how ugly we are talking about. if the person has a good personality then it only takes some time before someone notices it. but then again personality only goes so far but hay there is someone for everyone out there i agree if your in L.A. you might want to move to the middle of the country i live in L.A. and it is hard as hell to meet some one if your not moderately good looking
2006-06-08 23:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by xvangoras 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out ward beauty fades but if you are beautiful inside it lasts forever and for eternity! So no outward beauty is not everything!
2006-06-09 00:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever notice a hundsome guy going out with a not so good looking good lady. and you wondered why? thats because he could see the beauty withing her my dear. phisical beauty is not that important.
2006-06-08 23:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋