Me & my finance have been together for 5 years and she decided to take a "break" to see if I was the right one. Weve been broke up for 2 months now and when I try to talk to her bout us getting back together she gets mad and dont want to talk bout it. And has a mean attitude. And says "We'll never get back together". But on the other hand, she still talks to me like shes concerned. She tells me that she misses little things we used to do. And the asks how my day has been, like she wants to have a regular conversation. She tells me that she has new guy friends and that theyre only friends, but I dont know what to do. so how am i to know whats going on in her head?
2006-06-08 23:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by spider_lily32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one. She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out. You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
2006-06-08 23:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just take her for what she is. A good friend you have hjistory with. Move on. IOts not easy but it sounds like thats what you need to do. I know this isnt what you wanna hear but I have been there and although its not easy to move on , it will help you feel better in the long run. Stay friends with her if you can, and who knows maybe in the future she will find her way back to you or you will find someone who makes you feel how you feel towards her. Hope this helps.
2006-06-08 23:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by His Sunshine Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she told you what's going on. she doesn't want to get back together. she still wants to be friends though because you guys have shared so much. if you want to be friends as well then take some more time apart if you need to because it doesn't sound like you're over it yet.
in this case a "break" was a cop out way to say break up.
good luck
2006-06-08 23:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her or tell her that you also have new friends that are girls. when she sees this she might get jelous and want to get back together with you. the only bad problem about that is she might cheat on you. ask her to be honset with you and if she tells the truth you won't get mad at her. or you could alwayss tell her how you feel. that always works too.
2006-06-08 23:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by kimberlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to get back with you, but she does still care about you. This is pretty normal. She doesn't love you anymore but she still likes you as a person.
Thank god it happened before you married her, or you'd be in the same place you are now but with only half your money and possessions.
2006-06-08 23:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dude!
Remember one thing..A single quote will solve all ur problems pertaining to ur relationships.
"If your girl wants to go away,let her GO..,if she comes back...she is URS,.....if she doesn't .......she was never YOURS"
I know this is really difficult to digest,But thats true my friend.
Give her time...Be there for her...Its only U who can decide.....
And one more thing"" Girls require some time to decide whats right whats wrong for them!""
Cheers!
2006-06-08 23:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by shekhar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds messed up sorry dude take back the ring check ya later â¥
2006-06-08 23:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ The One You Love To Hate♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. She is playing you.
Find someone that appreciates you for who you are.
2006-06-08 23:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by alysonhell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋