My friend she compare herself with me ...for example yesterday she said "how come i'm breastless and u got all the junk in ur trunk?"
That makes me feel uncomfortable she even says men come after me only 4 my *** and my breast .....i know shes not much of a friend but my mom and her mom are really close friends ...what can i do 2 stop her without snapin' on her coz i have a crazy temper?
2006-06-08 21:14:00 · 15 answers · asked by *~`h!8@Q 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes upset because you have the ideal body she wants because you get all the attention from the guys instead of her and she is self consious talk to her tell her how you feel if she still like that you don't have to be best friends with her just be polite smile say hi and walk away when you see her. if your mom asks why say you and her don't get along tell her you think its best you don't hang out because of her comments tell her you approached her about it and it didn't change and thats why you guys don't hang out no more. Your mom will at least give you that. If she doesn't and you still have to hang out with her make your so called friend time with you living hell so she'll stop hangin with you. you gotta do what you gotta do. but be nice first !
2006-06-08 21:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ahem..is she your close friend?? Do u like her at all? If not , then why are u wasting ur time??? So what if ur mom and her mom are close friends..there's no rule that says that the respective daughters should be close buds! Besides...your "friend" is clearly jealous of u.. and she keeps comparing herself with u and probably puts u down whenver she gets the chance..for eg:- she saysmen come after you only for ur boobies...OH come on! Start avoiding her pronto or tell her whats on your mind to her face..
2006-06-09 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if she is jealous. Obviously, in her eyes, you have physical features she wishes she had. You have already stated that she isn't much of a friend. Just because your mother and her mother are friends doesn't mean their daughters will be. Let her know that you don't appreciate her comments and that she needs to be more secure in herself. Tell her that you don't like being spoken to in the manner in which she speaks and you would prefer to not be friends. If all else fails, speak to your mother about it. Surely she wouldn't force you to be friends with someone when it makes you uncomfortable.
2006-06-09 04:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no point in stopping the friendship because there's no friendship to begin with, u need to stand up to her and let her know u understand she's insecure about her looks, just so u know she envy you, so watch out thats never a good thing, and remind her that while shes being a total *** to you, ur being a friend to her, and she should feel stupid for that.
2006-06-09 04:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous clearly! You have something that she wants, and you may seem to get the attention from all the boys while she doesn't....let her know how you feel calmly, and if she still continues doing it, snap at her, sometimes you need to be mean in order to let ppl know what the story is!
2006-06-09 04:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you feel uncomfortable with what she is saying, and that if she continues, you'll have to put the friendship on the shelf for a while...meaning a brief reflection period. Talk to your mother about it also. Find friends who are confident in who they are, and that are fun to be with.
2006-06-09 04:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just jealous and secretly thinks you're better than her in certain ways... She really needs to learn how to deal with her jealousy. I believe it has nothing to do with you, but with her... You're just unfortunately in the wrong place at the wrong time
2006-06-09 04:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Miss_Perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her,make her more jealous by become more confident before her and other
and think again....y u r calling her as ur friend
2006-06-09 04:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by caring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a low self esteem. You can't do anythign about that - it has to come from within her.
Until then try to keep away from her - or you will end up in her trap! You can't really call her your 'friend'!
2006-06-09 04:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by estee06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is insecure about her looks..sit down with her and talk about all her great traits and if she continues to be a ***** then you will have to stop being friends...
2006-06-09 04:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋