what can i do about a jelous husband?

Answer 1

Divorce him.

Answer 2

Jealousy is usually caused by
- lack of trust
- a need to control the other person, or
- fear of rejection/abandonment.

The first question to answer is: Do you do anything to cause the jealousy? This is likely untrue in your case, but there are people who act or dress provocatively and expect their partners to "let me be me." This is not cool. Particularly, if it's done to aggravate the partner.

If you're not aware of anything you're doing to cause the jealousy, and if you have good communication with your husband, ask him what you do that makes him jealous. What is he afraid of? It may be something that the two of you can work on together. But it's very likely that you'll want to have professional help if your husband's jealousy is hurting your relationship. Since you're his wife, you're part of the problem, so it will be difficult for him to accept help from you.

Sometimes it's not something you're doing or what you're wearing. Some husbands are jealous because they don't trust other men. Or they may have experienced abandonment by their mother, a sister, or other family or friends. They may be more highly sensitized to the possibility of loss or rejection in relationships than others. This is usually not something you can change on your own. If your husband is insecure with no rational basis, you should try to convince him to go with you to a counselor. This can be your pastor or priest, a marriage counselor, a relationship coach, or other professional.

Similarly, if your husband uses jealousy as a way of controlling your behavior or keeping the upper hand in your marriage, you may want to seek counseling. You can't solve this one by yourself because if you try to lead, you're challenging his control.

I wish there was a magic pill that could eliminate jealousy. Sometimes all it takes is love and reassurance. Sounds simple, but can be very wearing. Overcoming jealousy takes willingness by your husband to accept that this needs to change, patience from you, possibly professional help, time, and a lot of mutual love and respect.

I wish you the best in working this out.

Answer 3

Make him feel your love. Just some loving attention now and then is good. But if he stays that way there isn't much you can do. Some people are just TOO jealous. I get jealous when my cute beautiful girlfriend goes out a lot without me and doesn't give me enough attention on the other side. She can go out "alone" as much as she wants, but I cannot trust her if she meanwhile doesn't show me that she loves me or at least thinks of me once in a while.

Answer 4

Address your own personal issues. Remember that when we are pointing the finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at ourselves. When you make personal changes, you may notice how everything changes, and your perception about the situation may even be different. I am sorry that you are in this situation--and it must feel painful. Seek counsel for yourself and everything will still happen the way it happens. But the difference will be that you stand on firmer soil and can handle what ever is in your path. Good luck.

Answer 5

Make him more jelous until he realizes how stupid he is and then you won't have a jelous husband anymore. Instead, you will have a smarter one. If he doesn't get smart than he will probably get lost, or should i say more lost. :)

Answer 6

Your problem is very simple...

All you need is;
give him a 100% care as his wife, make him happy and satisfied during your play end bed (you know).
Serve him 100% before your self, and follow what he said. dont think about your pride? remember, Every achievement accomplished by your husband is your achievement too. right? so, follow his order because you and your husband bind in front of many people to live as one. so, before i live, let your husband knows every place you want to go and what time to go home. kiss him and hug together with greetings. make this as your habit and your husband change. and allow you to go anywhere without jealous.

Answer 7

Tell that your glad he's jealous, i show you that he really truly loves you, but that it only fair that if he doesn't want you doing something that he can't do it either. And that if he gets jealous that he can't take it out on you because your happy that he loves you so much and that he has to tell you exactly why he's jealous or it turns you off.

Answer 8

communication is the key to all successful relationships,if u have done nothing 2 abuse his trust then these are his issues . talk to him reassure him and let him know that his distrust is causing issues in the relationship. if the jelousey continues u then need to question if perhaps he is overcompensating for his own infidelity.

Answer 9

Truthfully you can't do anything about him if he doesn't get therapy. You can help him by encouraging him to get therapy, this can help him to stabalise his emotions. If this doesn't work the best thing to do is leave him before he does something he'll regret.

Answer 10

There is nothing that can be done it seems. Sometimes when someone is jealous it means they, themselves, have something to hide. You need to have a serious conversation about your emotions and what you can do to recieve his trust and what he can do to recieve yours.

Answer 11

Be flattered, he knows that other guys like you too. Reassure him that if he hits you, you will be able to replace him within days!!