My best friend and I lived with her and another girl. Her good friend from home came to the same university we were going to, and eventually permanently moved in with us, not pulling her weight of course. All of a sudden she turned into a mutant, and some hardcore *****....someone i completely didnt know. before i knew it she was speaking about me behind my back and calling my best friend names, i felt completly betrayed and moved out b/c if you hurt my best friend you hurt me ya know? Now I don't know what to do, i speak to her on and off, but i can't believe she did what she did! It goes alot deeper but that is the gist of it...what do u think happened? what should i do? I know i need to forget her, but she was my good friend for 2 yrs...then this....at first i wanted to resolve things, but then i couldnt help but feel she was always talking about me behind my back....what advice to yall have? should i try and make it work? or jus forget it..
2006-06-08 19:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by micheypoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.
2006-06-08 20:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by BP1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh i would definately forget it i mean seriously if shes been talking behind your back about you anything else you guys talk about she is going to spill! She's not a true friend. She's probably trying to fit in with some other people and the only way she knows how to do it is by B**ching bout you, in the end she'll be lonely and have no true friends
2006-06-09 03:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make your friend in just two years!see friend that talks a bout you behind your back is not good and see do u really think that she accepts u as her best friend?.just be good and know one knows somebody wants to be your friend !be calm this has happened to me its difficult but this is life .make the most of it.i know u can do it.
2006-06-09 03:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by tweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try again to ammend ur friendship...if not possible ,she is not worth ur friendship..4get it
2006-06-09 03:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by virgo26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋