so what now, i am feeling a bit guilty about myself. how to face my wife afteer my marriage, i did not do anything wrong even they were intersted . did i do any sin, did i do any big mistake by having sex with them. even they were not virgins even they had sex with there friends.
2006-06-08 19:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sin yes, something wrong no. Your showing concern which shows that it means something to you, so I would not feel to guilty. As far as your future wife, it should probably be something that she knows, and if you tell her and express your concern, more likely than not she will be forgiving. Don't beat yourself up over it man, 4 girls, no less ones you actually knew is not to bad these days. And I know this has nothing to do with the question, but its nice to see that some people still have a conscience these days. Best of luck figuring it all out!
2006-06-08 19:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by k9ofstrikex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a very religious person then sorry but it is a sin, but if your not then go for it. Most women like a man with experience, but then there is girls, like me that want to go through that excellent experience with a guy (first time and all)and not alone!!!
You are really sweet to worry about it and feel guilty about it!!!!
If you plan to marry a person, you unfortunately have to be honest and tell her that you are experienced in that area...
If she is the one for you she will love and marry you just the way you are!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-06-08 19:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I could get this straight, you are married, you had sex with 4 other girls that not your wife, and now your not even sure you did anything wrong? Get a clue mister, you cheated on your wife! Even if they wanted to do it, you were wrong to cheat on your wife. I hope she leaves you.
2006-06-08 19:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, it depends to every one. According to me having sex before marriage is wrong. Just think.. if your future wife having sex with her friends and marring u means, what will u do? . please at least from now be truth full to ur wife.
2006-06-08 19:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by JimmyandJoe J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Da yes it is a sin u married for god sack tell her the truth she better know it from u rather than someone else.
2006-06-08 19:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have done with others, should not affect your future marriage. It's what you do AFTER marriage that is a problem.
Forgive yourself. Perhaps you should stop now, so that your guilt doesnt burden you further.
2006-06-08 19:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be guilty. After all what happend was with there concent. But if u r in love with one of them. Let here know.
2006-06-08 19:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by arzoo1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know man but there might be some consquences.
Like if one of them loves you and you are married.
Try to stop doing that.
2006-06-08 19:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by brian_smith3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if they were not virgins and they wanted to do it.
If you cheated on your wife your an *** no matter what spin you put on it!
2006-06-08 19:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep up the relation ships you never know when you may need a spare one.
2006-06-09 01:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋