You know i don't know why but sometimes i feel that i'm the ugliest girl .I don't know what to do?

Question

I feel i am the ugliest girl and that no one looks at me...I feel like crying sometimes when i see many beautiful girls but i am not like them.I do not know what to do?

Answer 1

You need to find out what has killed your self confidence. Even average looking people physically look better when they are comfortable in their own skin.

Answer 2

If you are under the age of 18 (aprox) I would say this is pretty normal. I felt the same way when I was in high school. There is a lot of pressure for girls to be thin and pretty. Try to realize even when the ugliest girl has a great heart or sense of humor they become attractive. So try your best not to be self conscious and try to be confident enough in yourself and your apperance that you can show off your personality :)

Answer 3

There are very few truly beautiful people, and most of them have had plenty of cosmetic work to get that way. The thing that makes any woman attractive is self-confidence. You need to stop looking at yourself and seeing only the flaws. No one is perfect. Ask your best friend to tell you five things she likes about you. You won't want to listen because you are probably convinced by now that the sad story you're telling yourself is true. Let go of being right about your unworthiness and listen to the positive feedback. Your confidence will start to build when you can accept that there are things about you that others admire.

Answer 4

It sounds nuts to some, but you may not at all be homely. Some people, especially girls can be made so self concious of their appearance that they begin to scrutinize themselves until they find SO MANY tiny things they dislike about their features that eventually they can look very awkward or blatantly ugly to themselves when they may in fact look totally normal or attractive. They've just distorted their own appearance in their minds.. An extreme case of this would be a diagnosed condition called body dysmorphic disorder, but you likely are just fretting too much. I think most girls do, otherwise we wouldn't try so hard to look perfect all the time.

Answer 5

Dont say that! I can bet ur pretty in ur own way(everyone is beautiful) dont kill ur self-esteem or confidence in urself. Everyone is created in a unique way different persons has different attributes no two persons looks the same and honey nobody can replace u or ur image! and by the way the girls u c that u say r pretty - i can bet they wear make ups or has done surgery or something like that to enhance their features especially these models. Do ur self a favor and dont compareur self with other girls!

Answer 6

hi
don't think like that the outer beauty has to go one day dont think that u r not so beautifuul like others girl but make urself a self-confident and cheerful girl who has always a smile on her face this everyone likes
make ur heart s most beautiful one that ur beauty will be ignored and then u will think u r a really beautiful girl
if u r not so beautiful then u r having something which makes u more beautiful then having out er beauty
hope so u get ur choice which will surely help u
best of luck!!!!!!!!!
ur sweet friend
anam

Answer 7

I've felt ugly many times in my life as well. What you need to do to get over it is to go out and make some friends. If they are good friends they will give you compliments and help you get through your crisis. I'm sure you're not bad.....I'm not unattractive by the words of others but I still believe that I'm not all that great. I don't know.....just do things that make you happy. If you really need to.....find yourself a boyfriend that can make you happy and shower you with needed compliments. Cheer up girl, you're beautiful I'm sure. :)

Answer 8

Chin up, we are all beautiful,maybe you have something in you that they dont have,do you think beautiful girls are not insecured? Believe me, they are more insecured than you!me,some of my friends says i am a good looking guy & smart but i have some insecurities that they dont know!That feeling of you is normal,beauty comes from within, pretty first wont last they get old and perish but your inner beauty last!Just think everytime you wake up,that you are beautiful like a princess, when you walk among those girls think that you are more beautiful than them!

Answer 9

sometime we don't feel we are beautiful and is ok but you have to keep you head up and make a point to make some changes if you want to feel better about yourself in general, you can change your hair if you concentrate on you hair for now work with it try different styles and once you find what you like then keep it up and maybe work on something else you want to like your smile or your eyes, don't put yourself down so much, walk tall you are beautiful you don't have to be like anyone else you are unique and thats what makes you beautiful, always walk tall don't let anything get you down, do not let anyone make you feel inferior.

Answer 10

no matter how corny this sounds, it's true that what you are inside is more important than physical attractiveness. be a good person and that would bring out the beauty in you.

you need to build your self confidence and start believing in yourself a little bit more. think of all the things that you excel at and the things that make you endearing to friends and others...that's a start

Answer 11

you shouldn't care about how other girls look. and you shouldn't judge yourself like that you should always think of yourself as a beautiful girl. you could also go to the mall and buy some cloths that make you fill pretty and then you could try to wear make-up and see how you feel or try a new hairstyle.