Can you explain this?
2006-06-08 19:20:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It's probably an adverse emotional reaction to the trauma of your divorce.
2006-06-08 19:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by net_at_nite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably an indicator that you're moving too fast in your relationships. I suggest taking things slow and dating around. Don't commit to one person right from the start- keep things casual. I'm not saying sleep with twenty guys... it doesn't have to be sexual at this stage... but the best way to retain your independence in the early stages of a relationship is to keep your options open (and make sure your partner knows that his/her options are open too). I think you should try an activity like speed dating, not necessarily to meet partners, but just to open your mind to the idea of seeing more than one person. Also, restrict the number of times you see your dates to once or twice a week.. when it's convenient for YOU! It's hard to feel smothered when you're calling the shots like this! Absence will make his/her heart grow fonder!
2006-06-09 02:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, your not ready for committment, keep dating and enjoy, the feelings and need for a relationship will grow on their own.
Don't worry, it's normal, your just not ready. Enjoy and explain to women that you don't want a committment now.
2006-06-09 02:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lululovesmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to deal with your feelings from the divorce. It might help talking to a profesional. You dont have to be crazy to talk to them they can just help u move on.
2006-06-09 02:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty common. You subconsciously scared to get too close because you've been hurt bad and you dont want it to happen again.
Time will help.
One day you'll meet someone who is different. Who you will trust and you'll be happy again. I know its hard.
Hang in there, good luck.
2006-06-09 02:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by jane d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋