I love this guy so much, he meant the world to me. I would of done anything for him, well almost. We never did have sex, but our love was just so strong. But the first problem was cheating was in his nature, but I forgave him every single time. Anyways after we broke up, I would still go over his house with my friend that was dating his uncle. But my ex was never there. So one day I was laying down and I decided to go look out the window, where I seen this fine guy. We talked and exchanged numbers. I knew that this guy knew my ex, but I thought nothing of it. So we continued to talk. When my ex found out he went crazy. Then one day when I was over his house his bestfriend and his one of his cousins tried to get at me in the wrong way. I was not about to go that way. I told them I use to date my ex, and they said so. To make a long story they told my ex lies about me and now my ex looks down on me, telling everybody i slept with his family, and how much he love me, but I did him wrong.
2006-06-08 19:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by BP1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he makes you feel bad then dont talk to him anymore. he is your ex.
i know it is hard to stay away but this is the only way to heal your pain from your ex.
2006-06-08 19:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He and his family are nothing but heartache. Whatever they say, they can't make it be true. Truth is always more powerful than lies. People will see through his game.
I doubt that he really looks down on you, even IF he THINKS it's true. After all, HE cheated on YOU! More than once! It's just an excuse to bad mouth you and make himself look like the one who was done wrong. He's just trying to get even with you for talking to that other guy. He thought he could do whatever he wanted without any consequences. He thought you'd hang around forgiving his abuse forever.
But why do you still LOVE your ex?? Do you love to be cheated on and lied to? Why? Why even be concerned about what he thinks? He's not worth the effort of trying to please him.
Scum like that doesn't deserve you. Find someone who is worthy of your affection.
2006-06-08 19:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by woodsygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUT THE CORDS, HON and MOVE ON. He's an EX, let it go, make peace that it's never gonna work out, he doesn't want to be with you, MOVE ON. It's not love you have of him but something bordering on obsession. Before it becomes a psychosis, please seek professional help.
2006-06-22 18:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read anything except the opening line. Anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself constantly isn't worth the effort girl. Liars and cheaters don't deserve someone like you worrying about them all the time. Forget him
2006-06-08 19:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by smsgreaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to simply **** off! He needs to grow up & leave you alone. You need to get away from him. Stop all contact. As hard as it will be, you need too. You should stop talking to anyone that knows him well enough as well..
2006-06-08 19:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did I was in somewhat the same boat....walk away if you let him go and he comes back it is meant to be but if you let him go and he doesnt...then you know his true feelings
2006-06-08 19:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by jeremy12341 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard to get over him cuz u know u loved him and all but mayne just try not to talk to him no more...or tell him straight up how things went and how u feel!!
2006-06-08 20:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by a girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋