What are some clues is my friend is gay I am gay myself and am interested if he is. Anything would be helpful instead of asking him:)
2006-06-08 19:05:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*Discover IF friend Is gay?
2006-06-08 19:06:03 · update #1
Well....... being he is your friend, i would assume he knows that you are gay. And from there i would say only you would know if he is even the slightest interested in you or the experience. People differ how they show their emotions and for us to comment on someone we don't even know your bound to get many different answers and possibly NONE be the right one. In all honesty i say talk to him, express you concerns and feelings assure him if he isn't thinking the same as you that you wont pursue it further and don't want to ruin what relationship you do have. Communication is the best approach to all things. Sit and Talk. :-)
2006-06-08 19:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by ToYsTeMpTer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are gay, so you should know the signs in realizing if he is or not. If he hangs out around you he is either curious, gay himself or maybe he found a good friend in you (I know ppl who are comfortable with their sexuality and hang around ppl who are gay). See what happens, by making a move you might chase him away, maybe he is still in the closet and needs you to help him realize how he could get out of it? Time alone will tell, and if he is gay I am sure he would feel comfortable enough to let you know.
2006-06-08 19:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with finding your friend a gay? would that change anything? if you feel both of you have interest with each other, move on to the next level...
you need to open your lines, try to talk things over coz your friend might wanna keep your friendship better rather than going on having a relationship with you. the bonding in friendship is much stronger than being lovers...
2006-06-08 19:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows that you are already gay, try to give little hints. Such as telling him how cute you think a guy is, and see how he reacts. If his reaction is like ok why are you telling me that, he might not be gay. If he sounds interested when you talk about another guy, there is your answer.
2006-06-08 19:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by BP1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very descrete way that you might try is the next time y'all are out and about point out some nice looking woman and say something about her. Like she's got nice breasts or is that your type of woman, or even ask him what he looks for in a woman.
Hope it helps.
2006-06-08 19:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you are gay and he hangs aroung you, then hes either curious or gay.
2006-06-08 19:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak your mind and make a pass otherwise you are just another dick sucker
2006-06-08 19:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋