I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and i love him very much. but recently i noticed that he's more annoyed with me and he makes me upset more frequently. i feel like i am depressed because i don't know what to do. he complains a lot and make little things a big deal and always tells me that i am ungrateful for what he's done for me. i always forgive him every time we fight but i just feel like im getting hurt but i cover it up with fake smiles. i know he loves me but i guess he's gotten comfortable with me and thinks he doenst' have to treat me as good as before. i am just so sick of the fights and the crying, what should i do?
2006-06-08 19:03:03 · 10 answers · asked by rainbowsandkittens 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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Communication is the principal building block of any relationship, but communication isn't just about expressing a thought. It's also about understanding what your partner is saying and conveying, back to them, that you understand.
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2006-06-08 19:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sancira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give yourselves some space. That is what I am my boyfriend of 4 years are going to do. He says his feelings for me have faded, but yet he does care and love me...so he is stuck in the middle. Give each other the space you both need to figure out what it is exactly you both want.
2006-06-08 19:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by lvnvgirl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to solving problems in any relationship. If you both can talk to each other and be open and decide to make your relationship work by arriving at win-win situations, then, hopefully, you both will understand where each other is coming from. Good luck girl! :)
2006-06-08 19:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Luzzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him; you deserve better than that. You should never be with someone who mistreats you.
True love is a choice and a commitment to place another person first. It is selfless and not mercurial or based on emotions.
2006-06-08 19:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by huzzah_b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's to short to be wasting it fighting over stupid stuff. If you're just annoying each other, get out. before the fights turn dangerous.
2006-06-08 19:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Judy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its not a love at all...i think he might get bored from u and might be seeking some other person at ur place...try to tell him that how u feel when he hurts u. try to make him understand how is ur state of mind because of this fights and if he is not comfertable with u jst get out of his life..........and enjoy ur life without him.
2006-06-08 19:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him frankly if he still loves you and if he say yes then give him a last chance,if he say no then move on you can do it,but its hard..or maybe learn him a lesson tell him you want to end up your relationship then when he comes back then he still loves you and ofcourse he should ask forgivenes from you
2006-06-08 19:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By no means do I mean to sound rude.. but your best bet would be to talk to *him* about this, not people on Yahoo Answers. Tell him everything you just said here.
2006-06-08 19:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give each other space before it gets uglier. believe me, it will get uglier.
the space will allow the two of you to see what you both really want from each other. plus it will make each of you appreciate each other more if you come to the conclusion that you want each other.
2006-06-08 19:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm.. whats love? lemme think..
2006-06-08 19:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by zimbo_kingkong 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋