i love this person with all of my heart and would dp anything for him but he lives in australia and i live in texas i will never see him.
2006-06-08 19:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by jessica g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why do we fall in love with people we cannot have? or why do we fall in love with the idea of falling in love, even if the other person don't know that we even exist? why???
2006-06-08 19:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you met this person online?
You don't say why you love this person. I don't want to rain on your parade, but I believe that to truly and unconditionally love someone, you must have a personal relationship with that person. In other words, spending time talking and in each other's presence. "Talking" to someone is only part of building a relationship. Shared experiences, working through the speed bumps in your relationship, dealing with the every day boring stuff that we all deal with, comforting each other when the days are tough . . . those are the things that solid, healthy, long lasting relationships are made of.
I believe that you do love the person who has been corresponding with you . . . but I caution you that he may not be who he says he is. My 26 year old daughter had an online love with a man in Europe for over two years and was heartbroken in March when she received undenial proof that this man was married and had been scamming women for 5 years on the internet.
I, on the other hand, met my husband on line. He lived 3 miles from me and we talked for 2 months online, 1 month on the phone and finally met in person. We have been together 9 years now, married for 2. I have been truly blessed. It can happen, but please be careful.
I suggest you decide where you want this relationship to go and take positive steps to make it happen. Only then will you know that it is true and unconditional love.
My best to you.
2006-06-08 19:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love conquers all boundaries, and distance is one of them. If you love this man as you say you do, and the feelings are mutual then you both would go through any means to make it work. It may not happen right away, but like if it's meant to be it will be. For now use the technology that keeps us alive! Email, phone, web cam anything that works for the moment, and you will know when it is time to move on, or make that step to be together.
Good luck!
2006-06-08 19:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of you move or need the relationship because long distance never works out.
2006-06-08 19:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by mother of 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love........There is no definition of love its like a rose it will grow with care or wilt with neglect it is what the beholder does with it that will make it thrive.
2006-06-08 19:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by jeremy12341 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him through phone or email that you love him and everything you want to say.
Best of Luck!
2006-06-08 19:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is love . Love is life if u wife
see him webcam and talk all .
2006-06-08 19:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..but in a long distance not good for health
2006-06-08 19:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by zaidos83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is that lucky man?
2006-06-08 19:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by rahul . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋