Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and i didnt know that he got on yahoo answers so i was just kinda curious on what kinds of things that he has asked and has responded to and then i came across this one and it talks about sum girls avatar looking asian or sum sh*t. and he said that its sexy or whatever and yeah its an avatar and i understand that but why am i so mad??? i dont know what to do. even if it was the girls real pic it would be ok for him to look at becuz it dont matter if he looks just as long as he dont touch. I think im just jealous. Sometimes i think my boyfriend really really hates me. Is it normal to be jealous and is it right to tell another girl that her f*cking "avatar" thing is sexy?? i know this is a dumb question but i dont know what to do and im p*ssed off right now and..........GRRRR!!!! i love him with all of my heart but i dont know. please help me. im about to flip the f*ck out!!! ***rips hair out***
2006-06-08 18:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah...i agree with u, slick, wonder how p*ssed my boyfriend would get about that....he should be too mad right?? they're just "avatars" Right???
2006-06-08 19:04:42 · update #1
oops.....he SHOULDNT be too mad....that what i meant to put....so sorry for my lousy spelling....its late at night and im tired and still.....p*ssed
2006-06-08 19:06:06 · update #2
my boyfriend already knew that i was looking in his yahoo thing.....i was on the phone with him while i was doing it
2006-06-08 19:09:54 · update #3
WHY ARE MEN ALL THE SAME????
2006-06-08 19:10:33 · update #4
hey amber... it's a matter of your own choice, but here's the thing. Can and do you trust him? You say you love him, but if you can't trust him, you have nothing. Just my opinion, but think about it this way. Do you want to spend the rest opf your life wondering if it's normal to feel this way? Do you always want to wonder? And if he's just being goofy on the net, and you're always suspicious, it's not fair to him. Just some thoughts.
2006-06-08 19:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you were the one that was snooping so I wouldn't get too upset at him. Like you said it was an avitar, and even if it was a picture men compliment women all the time about pictures and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Even women compliment men and even women for that matter about pictures.
I think you're over reacting a little and need to let it go.
2006-06-09 02:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, please calm down. If his actions disturb you so, perhaps you should consider not being his girlfriend. However, you may want to consider your tactics of how you came to know about these things. If HE knew, how do you think he'd feel about you spying on him. True friends usually have trust between them.
I'm sorry to say that is not the case with you and your boyfriend.
2006-06-09 02:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw he's a guy and they loose their sense sometimes, But you invading his privacy is wrong too. If your that insecure maybe you should'nt be looking or perhaps you should try it and see how he feels about you doing the same thing, Its probly just harmless fun. He is with you.
2006-06-09 02:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, just chill. I think Ariel from the little mermaid is sexy, but my gf doesn't pull her hair out over it. Just calm down. It's probably nothing.
Cheers,
Jon
2006-06-09 02:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by jonthecomposer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should have your avatar go down on my avatar to even things out...
2006-06-09 02:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get so upset ....as long they are not talking to eachother its fine. but i understand you. but do make sure they have no communication.
2006-06-09 02:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by LINDA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're upset over a flippin' CARTOON? grow up girlie-girl.
2006-06-09 02:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by nelent01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just your boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!
you can change those unlike husbands ya know?
so lose that zero and get a hero.
2006-06-09 02:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋