Please help! There is a really cute guy that I LOVE but i'm not pretty and thin enough as the other girls he "flirts" with. I think he may like me but i am not sure. how can i impress him or get him to talk to me? PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-06-08 18:48:20 · 13 answers · asked by strawberry fields 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you girls gave some good advice. i'll try it. Thanx a TON!!!
2006-06-08 18:56:26 · update #1
Become one of those girls that he flirts with. Confidence. If i learned anything through this answer thing, its that guys love confidence and they feel as if when they flirt, it helps tell them whether or not they like them. Go for it, wear your best outfit, do your hair and get your guy! i know you can do it.
2006-06-08 18:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Almeida girl 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he loves you how you look or if you are pretty or thin enough wouldn't matter. Love yourself first before you put your heart out on the line and get yourself hurt. Be yourself it is the only way to be a honest, loving and respectful relationship. Just talk to him, get to know him better, hang out a little, find out his interests go from there, flirt a little...see what happens if he likes you he'll prob make a move.
Good luck!
2006-06-09 01:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pretty and thin isn't everything. Being a good person with a great personality will take you a lot farther in life. He may very well like you, and be more concerned about what his friends think. If his friends think of you what you think of yourself, he may be afraid to go for it with you out of fear of what they'll say. It wouldn't be the first time a man couldn't think for himself. If that is true, he isn't worth your time. If not, just be yourself and let your personality draw him to you. If that doesn't do the trick, screw it, he isn't the only guy in the world worthy of your attention.
2006-06-09 01:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, you don't love him. if you loved him, you wouldn't have said half the things you did. he flirts with other girls. and you LOVE him? i dont' think so sweetie. just calm down, back off and realize one thing from this whole paragraph. YOU ARE WORTH A TON and if you think you're not thin enough or pretty enough...he is NOT the guy for you. you're a doll. it's your heart that matters and it sounds like it's just fine. email or IM me if you want to talk further.
2006-06-09 01:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE URSELF!!! i understand what u mean...i dont think im pretty or anything like that, but if he likes u for u ull know....but just dont change urself for him....just make small talk with him...tell him u like what hes wearing or ask him if he can help u with a problem that ur having; like a math problem...or, if at school(if hes a classmate), when u have groups, get into his....or just flat out ask him if he like u...maybe ask him 2 hang out...hopefully i gave u soem good advice
2006-06-09 01:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him as his friend, simple friend. Don,t try to be like that girls whom he flirt with. Make him feel that you are different from that girls and he will definitely love you
Best of Luck!
2006-06-09 02:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just be yourself. If he doesn't like you just for you, then you shouldn't be with someone like him. Liking others for just what they look like is shallow. There is more to a person that outward appearance. You should be with a guy that likes you for you and not just by what you look like. You'll be happier in the long run.
2006-06-09 02:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. and by the way... guys pretend to like skinny girls in public because they are embarrassed of thick women. they think they are lazy etc. etc. but in reality. the love it when we have some weight on us. and your weight is your issue not anyone else
2006-06-09 01:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by ninispad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey honey don't get sad about how the other girls look just think how you are better then them and to answer your quetion just go up to him and talk to him!!!
2006-06-09 01:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by morgankatelyngoodwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to have some confidence.......
love yourself first if you wanna get loved
2006-06-09 01:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋