2006-06-08 18:46:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, he says that love comes after marriage and he is not ready for it now; but he still needs me with him untill he is able to establish himself financially and in every other way. We ve come along way now; known him for 3yrs going out 1 yr? is he lying to me; and just using me ; is that possible after all that?
2006-06-08 19:00:17 · update #1
he wants to meet again and i love him, what u think i should do?
2006-06-08 19:09:38 · update #2
i told him if u dont love me then; that is it; he said no there might be hope and should wait not rush into decisions; should i keep going at it
2006-06-08 19:11:17 · update #3
PLZ I REALLY NEED UR ADVICE ?
2006-06-08 19:12:29 · update #4
it basically means not to hold out for him, but to just let it sit. give him time. let him breathe. let him figure himself out and when he does...you'll know. but keep yourself open. if you feel this guy "Might be the one but i'm not sure and i dont' want to wait"...then you don't really love him. let him go. but if you feel he's worth waiting on to figure out what he feels...tell him to let you know when he knows. and then wait. :)
2006-06-08 18:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. It is 2am, so you know i am going to tell you the truth. He means "Thank you for laying down with me, but I really do not want to be with you and please do not be hateful to me or stalk me. I am sorry." Pick up your heart and move on. I am just teling you like a big sister would. Oh, and do not get into this situation again. It is okay to not have sex........incidentally, your aditional details reveals to me he is a liar. Run girl run! every grown woman Has heard this lie! Somebody really should write a book!
2006-06-09 02:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by I-doubt-that. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is to have private relationship (including sex)
Like is to have friendship only
might work out : means he might love u later
2006-06-09 01:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by ONE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have yall been going out? sometimes you hafta be patient with some guys...if you really like him, be friends for a while, but don't let him use you for sex unless you are getting your needs met as well
2006-06-09 01:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by yesindeed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you, silly. he is holding out for someone "better" (what he thinks is better, anyway.) dump his *** while you are not too emotionally involved. i know you THINK yo9u are already emotionally involved, but the longer you wait, the harder it will become.
LET HIM GO WHILE YOU STILL CAN. if he felt the same as you, he would say ythe same things as you.
2006-06-09 02:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by nelent01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple to understand HE DOES'NT LOVE YOU,how could a relationship work when at the first place he doesnt love you..it would never work !
2006-06-09 01:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by niza_0224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you up front he doesnt love you,hes with you till what he thinks will be something better comes along.
He wants his cake,and eat it too.
been there done that!
2006-06-09 01:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he wants to have sex, and will tell you anything to get you to do it with him.
2006-06-09 01:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that he is taking it one step at a time.
2006-06-09 01:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that he is scared of his feelings and wants to stay with you
2006-06-09 01:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by pookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋