my family is living n another country..my bf don`t want us to get separated again because of long distance so he got me preg! [it was confirmed that i was preg when we got separated again by distance]..we both want this baby and we are so happy to have this!
now the problem is,my parents don`t want me to go back to the country where my bf is if were not still married..but my bf promised to his parents that we will get married after his college..and 2-3 years more college! [i think my bf`s parents don`t want us to get married unless my bf has not finished school yet]..now,my bf wants me to go back home but my parents dont agree with it! im confused so any advice what to do? we cant like even see eachother unless we are married! eventhough he`s the father..
2006-06-08 18:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you want to get married? If you do, see if the both of you can talk to his parents, and tell them why you want to get married now, that you both want to be there to provide for your child, so he/she will have both parents to support him/her. Tell them that the situation has changed and marriage is the best choice.
If you don't want to get married, then you'll have to try to change your parents' minds. If its not possible, you have to do what is best for your child and your relationship. You come first.
2006-06-08 18:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by thundernlightning 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is why marriage should come before sex. By the way he didnt get you pregnant the two of you conspired on that. Separation may be just what you need to come to terms with your immaturity. Start thinking about taking care of yourself and the baby now that you will have one.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-08 18:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get engaged for the mean time or get court marriage then after his education completed u guys can get settled
2006-06-08 18:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mitesh P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋