i need your help im goign cazy over this girl we've been friends for ever i need adv. how do i get the point across that i like her with out making things weired.
ok i dont know what to do i've liked her for three years now.
i've asked her best friend if she likes me and she(her friend) wont tell me
so im asumming that she does but ya i dont want to asume.
i really want some girs words on this but ya im pretty much brain dead now i cant think strait but im pretty sure she wont go ou with me i dont know wh maybe im just being parinoyed.
please give me something to ponder on.
2006-06-08 17:31:38 · 5 answers · asked by huskymutt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have one problem
2006-06-08 17:39:06 · update #1
shes just gotten her heart brocken by a really stupid guy
so i dont want to do anything right now
is that roung of me?
2006-06-08 17:44:51 · update #2
you don't know til you ask....cliche but oh so true
2006-06-08 17:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by lucygoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Ponder. From the voice of experience. Ask yourself what is the worst thing that could happen. Then weight the answer(s) carefully. If she is your friend, and things get weird - are you willing to risk that? If she does date you and things dont work out between you two, are you willing to loose her as a friend?
If you value the friendship then leave things alone for a while. If you are willing to risk that friendship for something better, or worse, then go for it. What is the worst thing that could happen? If you can live with that then take the risk.
If you decide to go for it, you might consider asking a question like 'what would happen to our friendship if we dated?' That is a safe way to ask and will give you some room if the reaction is not what you wanted.
Good Luck!
2006-06-09 01:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by having too much fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't tell me much when her best friend won't reveal her feelings to you. It's either 1) they don't want to hurt your feelings knowing she is not interested or 2) they were told not to say anything to you about her liking you. It could go either way. I assume by now she knows how you feel and after 3 years, you should know how she feels based on her behavior around you and whatnot.
I think it's time that you two sit down and talk this through and confess your feelings to her. Set a time and an appropriate place to do so.
Good luck.
2006-06-09 00:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her friend wont tell you it means she isn't into you dude. 3 years!! Man at this rate you'll be a virgin for life
2006-06-09 00:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...just :
1. Listen to your heart
2. Listen to her answer :) ...ask her.
2006-06-09 00:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by wolverine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋