I found a porn with gay men in my boyfriends stuff, should I be worried?

Answer 1

Honestly, to a guy, having porn isn't really a big deal in general. If he has gay porn, he may be satisfying some fantasy that he has no intention of acting on. It may be a healthy curiosity, rather than some secret life that he's withholding from you.

It's a good idea to ask him. Always approach your other half with honesty and candor. However, if you do approach him, I don't recommend throwing the porn in his face and asking him, "where did this come from?" You won't get an honest answer that way. Approach him with dignity and respect, and he'll probably reflect the same when you talk about it.

Answer 2

You should speak to him about what you found. He's either a closet bisexual or gay. If he's bisexual, then you'll have to decide if you can live with it or if you can't share him then leave him. If he's unsure of his sexuality and can't decide if he's gay or not, then take him to counselling to resolve the issue one way or another. It's not fair to either of you to continue without knowing.

Answer 3

Yes, and time to have a very frank and serious discussion. For your sake, I hope that he hasn't had any gay sex before or while he has been with you. Get yourself checked regardless.

Answer 4

The question you should be asking, is whether you should confront him or not. I think you should try talking to him about it. It could be a mistake.

Answer 5

yes

Answer 6

does a hog like slop?

Answer 7

I would worry. I don't KNOW if you should. Ask him about it.

Answer 8

Um....Yes.

Answer 9

YES!!!