i think he is nice ,but he always seems to have alot of girls around him. He says that he only wants to be with me I don't beleive him anymore. But I don't want to grow old without a mate.What should I do?
2006-06-08 16:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by Prissy Pearl19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take some time to investegate and see where his thoughts really are before you decide to move in together cause you would not want to live together then find out something that is going to break your heart in the long run you know because you are more important than that so i would take some time to really get to know what his true intensions are
2006-06-08 16:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by just2bme28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it then. Don't move in with someone if you are having doubts, espcially if you are 19! There are plenty of men out there, you don't have to worry about being old and alone. There's someone for everyone. Haven't you ever seen those couples that you NEVER want to think about having sex? I'm trying to say something tactfully here.....know what I mean? Well, that proves it, there is someone for everyone.
2006-06-08 16:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. Don't move in together. You most certianly will not grow old without a man by your side. If you don't believe he's being honest when he tells you he only wants to be with you, why should you go against your gut?
2006-06-08 16:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who knows.........dont stay with someone just because you dont want to grow old alone. If you dont trust what he says thens hes not the one for you and there is someone else out there that is good for you. Dont set your slef up to fail! Be a stong women I have recently found that men like that!
2006-06-08 16:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by someone101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into anything.
You said "I think he is nice." You didn't mention anything about love or how long you have been together. Maybe he isn't the person you are meant to be with..
There are many other guys out there that will turn your head and make you forget him.
2006-06-08 16:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so desperate! if you don't trust him, moving in with him is a BIG mistake. also if you are under the age of 75 you still have plenty of time to find a true mate
2006-06-08 16:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue looking until you find someone whom you can trust, if you can't trust him now how are you going to trust him later. When you find the right one you will be glad that you waited.
2006-06-08 16:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you cant trust him then it wont work... im bi and always have a friend with me,my gf gets jealous and does the whole why dont you just go and be with your gf whenever we fight.. i just tell her to shut up and stop being stupid lol works for me
2006-06-08 16:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in your boyfriends shoes, if he really loves you, you will see it when he looks at you. you should trust him! as a guy im telling you theres nothing worse than rejection. maybe by moving in you two will learn more about each other and learn to trust each other more.
2006-06-08 16:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Josh G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't move in with him until you are married because you get so annoyed with them once you do. If you are married you really feel like you have to work at it.
2006-06-08 16:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋